My new saying "If you want to really understand something then learn how to correct your own mistakes." That's what I'm going with here. lol.
But lately I've been taking a closer look at how I learn martial arts vs how others might be learning it. I'm teaching my son and I'm forcing him to learn how to figure things out. I don't just give him answers. So when I give him questions of what he can do next, I often get a blank stare and no answer. I think of it like this.
This is martial arts. Some people will take that cube and try to see where it fits. This is me. This is how I learn martial arts. Seems crazy, but by doing this I become familiar with the other shapes and the resistance that it gives when it confronted by the cube. Most people will be taught that the cube goes into the square shape. So that's what they do. Because of this they do not become familiar with the resistance of the other shapes. This is how my son learns, so when I ask him, what are some of the things he can try, he's not able to answer because that would require him to try to fit the peg in every shape.
Fitting a square peg in a round hole seems insane. Would I try it. sure will. Then I would try to understand if this is always false or are there some exceptions to this reality. A lot of people will say that it's inpossible to fit a square peg to a round hole. The truth is that it isn't . Make the round hold larger or the square peg smaller or both and you'll have a working solution. If I'm the square peg and my opponent is a triangle. Then I have to figure out is there something I can do with my square technique that will allow it to be fit in a triangle shape defense. Or is there something I can do to the defense to either enlarge it or change it's shape. When does that reality exist, if it exists? By exploring it I understand my technique better and I understand the technique that my opponent is using to defend or attack better.
In terms of martial arts, I want him to be the person who tries to different solutions and not just pick the one I tell him it is. I want him to take what he knows try them each or run it through his head and see what the options are, understand where it fails and how it fails and where the exploits are. At the moment he's not there. People naturally do this with video games, crossword puzzles, and technology. I just need him to take the same approach with Martial arts.