Im definitely not dismissing kata/forms for those that have said that i am :O What i said was I dont think i would be interested in doing MA that is ONLY katas. Not to disrespect those art forms at all, of course. But i never said "useless" or anything of the sort
Some people in this forum are very defensive when anything bad is said about kata. It's understandable: a lot of people do bash it, when it's something that can be very useful. I think this was a case of some being oversensitive to it, since normally when it's mentioned negatively, the person doing so is implying it is useless. Don't worry too much about it.
I totally understand the naivety that I have towards the Art. Being new its impossible for me not to be. For example, i play classical piano. Im sure you can imagine the people that think they know how to play music but really have no idea, compared to the ppl who spend 8 hours a day practicing. Naivety is inevitable.
But to be fair, I dont think its a good idea to start something new doing something polar-opposite of what attracts you to that art in the first place. If someone starts piano because they like classical music, i wouldn't make them practice jazz scales all day. Maybe a section of their practice time would be, just to get the technique down. Otherwise the student will probably quit because they're spending nearly all their time doing something they dont like.
At the same time i want to be super open-minded, but i think its a smart idea to at least START with the art that interest me the most. What do you think?
I agree with you almost entirely. If there's something that attracts you to martial arts, you should definitely start with that. Just don't be surprised when you find out that you like something entirely different. I assumed for years that I would hate any grappling arts, then one day I tried it out and discovered that, despite my experience in MA, and despite my confidence that I wouldn't enjoy what looked like groping other men while both get sweatier, for some odd, unexplainable reason it is a lot of fun and I love it. At some point another this will likely happen to you.
It's different than piano in the sense that I can listen to both Jazz and Classical music and know that I like one and not the other before I ever start playing. I can watch two different training methods, or sparring styles, and have no clue which one I will actually like until I try both of them.