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I think that when the "heated discussion" goes south is when people result to insulting each other, especially through direct name calling, or direct attacks.
We also learn more about the people we are meeting with. We also learn something about ourselves.
I also think history shows the martial arts developed (in part) to defend country and beliefs (Shaolin Monks for example). I find it very interesting to see what modern day martial artists think about Political/Religious issues and how we react to verbal pokes as a reflection of how we might react to real ones.Flatlander said:Above and beyond that, everyone gets a chance to really think about these issues, and get different points of view. Discussion of these topics is vital and necessary, IMHO, in order for us to test our beliefs, and reinforce our convictions. As well, it keeps us all informed of current events, and allows us to explore the the meaning behind those issues. Critical thinking is a good thing.
Go team!
As one of the only women who frequent the Study, I'm chiming in. There's a few good reasons for it, as we have all discussed in our private forum and in pms:someguy said:If you start with debating stuff you sometimes go back and adress specific points people have raised. They address what you have countered with some oter peopple come in and in the end every body gets mad and bam you got a flame war. Sort of.
The study probably has the most flame wars simply because of te volital nature of what is being disscussed. We also learn more about the people we are meeting with. We also learn something about ourselves. I realized I'm kind of psuedo-agnostic in a way.
There does seem to be a lack of women who frequent the study. Just something I find intresting. I wonder if that is tied to this.
Most importantly though if I have offended anybody tthat wasn't my intent. If I offend you feel free to say it and I'll probably correct it if I see that it needs correction.
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Awwwwww, I feel a group hug coming on .raedyn said:What I like about discussing these topics on this board (versus others I've tried) is that the vast majority of the time, everyone here makes an honest effort at thoughtful, educated discussions, and there is generally an effort to listen and understand and inform each other.
I'm going to have to disagree with you there, if by "not employed" you mean "taking care of house and family".GAB said:Hi KT,
Well said.
I think in reality women have more time on their hands, especially when they are not employed.
As far as opinions go, it is nice to read yours.
Regards, Gary
1. YUP.Feisty Mouse said:I'm going to have to disagree with you there, if by "not employed" you mean "taking care of house and family".
Oh well.
I think part of the reason more women aren't in the study is... 1) not many ladies on MT in general, and 2) in my own experience, women tend to seek out conflict a bit less than men.