I've been to (and enjoyed) a couple of Bill Wallace sparring seminars; the second one had too many attendees to be great, but was still good. I also went to a Larry Fields breaking seminar that was really good; I was mostly there to help with the kids, but he made sure I got up front and participated as well.
I saw a Bill Wallace Demonstration at an event once. I was just 20 yer old young punk of a male just started out in the martial arts but had just enough bouncing experience to know better than to mouth off. But ...
So while we are watching four rings of action (* forms / sparring etcetera *) a real boxing ring was being preped. One of the guys on the floor (* me and my friend a senior to me in the art were up in the stands, maybe 30 plus rows. *) and we could hear him talking smack about his demo with Bil Wallace. Well we let it go with just a couple of comments about how he would get his. So we went back to our favorite past time of watching women in the crowd. A very attractive woman was sitting a few rows in front and to the left of us. so my friend started talking and he was just loud enough for her to hear us. We were complimenting her, and not being total d-bags about it. She even turned over her shoulder and smiled at us. So my friend makes the comment about possible talking to her, I said, she is probably here with someone on the floor. And given my luck he would be Bill Wallace and kick my butt for hitting on the woman with him.
We watched the demo and the kid talking smack got handed his rear end again and again. Bill did not start out that way even though he had heard the smack talk. But the other guy just tried to take it to him in the ring. (* This being in like 86 or 87 time frame. *) Well after Bill took it to the kind with ease and showed him up and worked him over, he just calming got out of the ring and walked up the stands to sit with the very attractive woman.
Now here is the kicker. The woman just looked over her shoulder again and gave us this big grin like she had just caught the bird. We laughed adn smiled back and nodded our heads to her. She never said a word to Bill about it as he never even looked in our direction.
Among my best experiences were the first time the Grand Master called me up to help him demonstrate something, and also a great experience as a promoter in one seminar I had over 100 people in attendance!
Every experience I have had I have learned from so I can't really give a worst experience.
I really enjoyed being used as the example or working with Remy. I learned a lot from the inside of all those techniques. Some people did not like the pain. Others did not like having others see them with the techniques being executed on them. I loved it as I got to learn more and faster. It was lots of fun.
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Why do people pay good money for a seminar, then hide in the back rows? There should be a fight to get in the front in my opinion, and generally, the front rows are quite sparse. Why would you be afraid to be out front and centre? If Sensei picks on you, great, let him rip you apart, thatĀs what youĀre paying for! At Seminars I have always tried to be in the front, I want to hear and see what is going on, and if Sensei decides to show the class how crappy my sword work is, so be it, there is no other way to get better then to have someone tell you that youĀre doing it all wrong.
If I am working the seminar, I stay in the back, so I can make a discrete exit if I have to go get lunches, or what have you, and I wonĀt disturb the class. If IĀm not working, I try to be in the front row.
Anyone else notice this trend?
Yes some people like the back, others like to only work with a certain partner. I try to move around and work with people during the practice portion of the seminar I am giving. This gives me a chance to work with them and also possible find someone to demo the next technique or sequence with. So I work with them and then pull / call them up to demo at the next instruction phase of the seminar.
In a recent, local seminar I brought up a younger girl yellow belt as I had worked with her just before and asked her is she knew something. She new the technique in the gross pattern so it was enough to show that moving slow and with intention was a good way to learn. She missed the pattern a couple of times starting out but I just wokred with her until she got over being in front of people and she just did it with me.
So yes I see it and I try to bring the people up myself to give them something and some confidence.
Thanks Terry I really appreciate the compliment!
I have had the pleasure of attending so many wonderful seminar's and unique training sessions that it would be hard to pick one out. From Dan Inosanto, The Grand Tuhon "Nene" Tortal, Remy Presas, Mark O'Brien, Doron Navon, Greg Kowalski, Mike Asuncion, Brian "Buzz" Smith, Rich Parsons, Ken Blackburn, Caique, Rolker Gracie, Royce Gracie, Master Bro, Master Dave Weatherly, A couple Machado seminars, Remy Presas Jr., Dan Anderson, Cass Magda, my good friend Bob Orlando, Matt Lamphere, Noguchi Sensei, Shiraishi Sensie, Seno Sensei, Oguri Sensei, Hee Il Cho, General Choi of course Tai Kai with Hatsumi Sensei and so many more that I have unfortunately left out.
Each opportunity offered some thing unique and precious and each helped shape my martial path! (I owe each a debt of gratitude)
Most importantly it simply is to attend as many different training opportunities so that you can learn, compare and experience what is out there.
I have only been to one seminar where the instructor was only interested in his experience. Even then that taught me a lesson early on that when I teach it is all about the practitioner's learning and that my goal is to give each person
a great experience!
Yes, seeing lots of people is good in my mind. It allows you to see different ideas and approaches and one can decide. How does one know if they like chocolate cake if they only have french vanilla.
My worst seminar(s) I did learn from as Brian stated one can learn from everything.
I think when the host saw me working with one of his students who was not getting it and I was going slow with him came over and then worked with me to show he knew it and that his guy must obviously know it so the problems were all mine. He started fast and I met his speed so he slowed down and I did as well. He then stopped and talked, I listened out of respect. He then started up fast again and slapped me across the face and said you obviously do not know this. He student gasp in shock and I turned to see if he was swining as well as he was behind me and the shock was still on his face. I then checked him with my right and started to swing with my left. The host was walking away fast through the crowd. GM Remy Presas, checked my arm from behind. I turned to fight what I thought was a third possible hostile and saw him. I stopped. He looked at me and said he does not understand. I will take care of it. The orignal student I was working with just looked at me and apologized and asked me not to beat him up. I smiled and said we should switch partners to avoid problems from either group. He said thank you.
The host was and is still today an ***. But many of his students have left him and they are not.
I learned that hosting is not all about the host. It is a total experience, that effects lots of people.
Our group drove down the next year to see the GM there again. We would see him and bring him in other times through the year as well. We walked in all amped up from watching fight movies in the motorhome and drinking Mountain Dew. Remy walked over before we could get in far enough to pay, and put his hands around me an a senior and told the rest to follow. He walked us out, and said, "You must go now. Thank you for coming. I see you later." I laughed and shook my head.