I'm determined NOT to take offense, but passive aggressive behavior is on my short list of buttons to push. Couple of things. 1: Whether or not it's a martial arts issue, grappling was involved. 2: Acknowledging that there was grappling involved doesn't make my position "all about the grappling." That's just the part on which you chose to fixate. And 3: Being rude is as much a cultural thing as language. In my family, and in my community, your current behavior would be considered very rude.
I understood your post the first time you posted it. You asserted that the article didn't give enough information to conclude that they were grappling. It did, and I pointed out specifically where. You were incorrect. You then argued that grappling isn't a verb. It is, and I shared the definition with you. And then you argued I was using the term incorrectly. I wasn't, and now you acknowledge that I am using the term correctly, albeit via Kman.
don't get me wrong. I like you. i just wish you weren't so damned stubborn and obstinate. It's worth it to get to the end, though, and usually we end up on the same side.