Oh yes, I perfectly understand that training in knife defense will take time. Im not expecting to goto 1 or 2 training sessions and expect to know how to defend myself, I know that its going to take awhile and Im willing to go the length of saying that Im willing to take the time thats needed to become proficient in Kali(if thats possible). You'd be safe to say that Im rather obsessed with wanting to train in Kali(and ill train in it for yrs once I start)
What im saying is that I've done alot of research for the past yr or a little more, spoke to a lot of ppl in-person, visited training facilities, spoke with instructors and my main reason for wanting to train in Kali is for self defense as well as some other reasons(A fun hobby, confidence of knowing an amazing self defense art) which is where Im going with this. Self defense. I know the original poster is speaking about defending someone who's trained in fighting with a knife. From some of the responses, a decent amount of posts stated that you'd likely be dead or rather get hurt badly and Im befuddled by that. Why I posted was because seing as how Kali is primarily a weapon based art I figured that if someone(trained in Kali) were to defend against an attacker wielding a knife that yes you'd have a chance to defend it more successfully vs someone who has no training at all.
Now, I don't know if the OP is talking about an attacker with a knife going against someone trained in Kali or attacking someone who has no experience in Kali so maybe Im reading into this whole thing wrong.
If the opponent is a skilled blade fighter and you are a skilled blade fighter the winner could be the one to watch the other die before he dies. That is the reality of a blade encounter.
When I train with other who know blade work we all end up with red marks on are arms (* aluminum blades - no edges but still metal for feel of contact and impact *) and hands. This shows that unless your timing is perfect you will be just a little bit off and you can get cut. Now those that are trained usually get cut in locations that would allow them to continue.
So, one could train in an FMA to get better at blades and be better than the average person on the street. I have taken blades away from people in real life encounters. I have scars on my arm and one on my leg from being cut. Those who train with the blade are many times some of the most humble as we know the attributes of the weapon and understand its' effects.
If you enjoy the training it would be good for you as if you enjoy it people do it.
If you want the self defense it is good for that as well as it has some good points and treats and "respects" what the blade can do.
If you compare, and I am biased here as a practitioner of FMA's, I think the FMA's teach very well the blade and stick weapons. I think one can learn a lot of self defense. If you are prepared for the blade then the stick moving as fast but as impact is not as big a worry. It is to be respected as it can still take you out but you begin to feel more comfortable with it. The same goes for empty hands. Once weapons start to move, moving back to empty hands can give a person more time to think and respond. As there is more distance the the tip of the weapon (* stick or blade *) is moving faster than an empty hand.
Having respect for something does not mean the trainnig is bad.
I have respect for driving. I have had lots of exposure and some training that normal drivers do not get. Just access to test sites and vehicles. But I still respect the vehicle.
Familiarity breeds contempt in many cases, but for the blade work I think most are realistic in the FMA's.
Some people just drive their car. They have training from a long time ago and never refresh it. They do not check out new laws or the capabilities of vehicles. They drive "safe" and avoid bad roads or going off-road. They know their limitations or are afraid of what could happen and avoid certain situations.
The self defense person learns to avoid situations as well, by learning how they carry a blade and how others carry a blade and recognizing it. The same is true for firearms. Once you get used to scanning people for weapons it becomes second nature. Many also scan people and rate their threat level. Some out of fear. Some out of ego. Many for self defense and to avoid a situation.
But how does one begin to see this learning? They train with the weapon and with others who know the weapon. You have an interest. Keep it and check it out. The investment is worth while from my point of view and opinion.
Many people who never been attacked would jsut stand and be stabbed.
Many people who have trained empty hand would freeze as well with the knife as they would not know what to do.
Many others would just reach out and try to grab it. While this might work with the untrained or lessor trained, the original poster stated skilled opponent. So I would expect many people to get stabed here as well.
The few trained opponents going up against trained opponents will depend upon a lot of conditions of training, sleep, awareness, etcetera.
I have an expereince of a guy with an axe handle chasing peopel around and he came at me. I grabed a training stick out of my car and passed off and down as I was creating room. I swung again I repeated the move form the other side. He stepped back and stated, "I will be back for you later."
While I had only been training a few months at that time, I knew enough to match his skill and intent that he decided to go after others. To many present this guy was a skilled axe wielding opponent as he was large and swung it hard and did not over extend himself to allow people to close and tackle him down. He could have been and probably had more training time with his weapon than I did. I may have been lucky. But it was enough for the self defense encounter to keep the bad guy who was bigger than me away from me with a bigger and longer weapon that I had.