The trick is to have a ton of different stances you always transition through.
Agree. Similar to tai chi push hands, you transition from "stance" to "stance" per the opponent's movement. You are in perpetual motion, not stuck in any one position (stance). Your alignment and balance (stance) should allow you to issue (e.g., push, punch) at any moment.Sure but the transition from stance to stance is where the magic is. For example, Tai Chi Chuan is not about stance it’s about transitioning correctly, this is why most people can’t use it at all. It’s not enough to know the choreography, the transition is where the rubber meets the road.