Gwai Lo Dan
3rd Black Belt
boxing style punches, movement and sparring(but with kicks ofcourse, so this kind of sparring is somewhat more akin to WAKO kickboxing), some escapes and counters on the ground, and a few of the more practical standing wrist and arm-locks from hapkido. I don't train in this chain, allthough I have considered it several times, and might train there in the future. Sounds like something that would fit OP perfectly.
Yes I would enjoy that. However, I think kicking is very hard to do well, so I also enjoy the "kicking, kicking, and more kicking" schools (using Manny's terminology). What I don't like is spending time on things that I can't see myself using directly, like complicated 1 step sparrings that are contingent on my partner staying in his punching stance while I do 5 moves.
I had the same experience. I posted before that I did TKD in university for 4 months in 1994. My house mate said he was in TKD too, but I never saw him there. Then when it came out that he was in the ITF class and I was in the WTF class, he said, "Oh, I am studying the REAL TKD.". So I asked what "real" means and he said, "for instance, you wouldn't be able to defend if I did this" and he ran into me.Even though I started out in Kukki-style TKD in 1992, I considered joining an ITF club after a few years of Kukki, because of their sparring ruleset, and I even visited several in an attempt to see if it was something that would fit me, but I was scared away by how almost all the ITF representatives I met seemingly used any oportunity they got to bash what they called "WTF-style", saying that everything that I had previously learned was useless or "watered down"
My first (yellow belt) instinct was a side kick to the face, so I picked up my front leg and side kicked his nose as he rushed in, pulling my kick so that I just tapped him. After he rubbed his nose, he never again said my TKD sucked. Arguably he made his point that I didn't select the best technique, but it was good enough to stop him.
The only other time someone said "TKD sucks" was about 4 years prior in 1990 or 1991, also at university, and also as a yellow belt. My HK friend (a yellow belt but lifelong student of CMA) wko was teaching me kicking, introduced me to a guy in his residence, saying I was the guy from the TKD class that he was teaching, and I was pretty good. The guy said "TKD sucks. I could beat you up". I said "yeah, I'm not very good." And he repeated that he could beat me up and I said "yeah, I'm only a yellow belt". And then the guy started pushing me. After a little shoving the guy wouldn't stop so I did a turning kick to his head, pulling my kick a few inches from his head. After that, he stopped saying he could beat me up.