drop bear
Sr. Grandmaster
Yes, I believe the mental aspect to Martial training can, and should, be huge. I find it lacking in much of today's martial world, though.
I'm not quite sure what you mean in the second part of your question.
You mentioned not having martial thoughts on the job and he is misinterpreting that.
I constantly was told that bouncing wasn't MMA by my boss. He didn't like the look of actual grappling.
Seemed to always be MMA for the other guy.