DeLamar.J
3rd Black Belt
When ever you are sparring with someone, do you hit them or just graze them? I was recently sparring with a black belt I had just met. At the start we were dancing around throwing out jabs and front kicks just feeling each other out, I was throwing a few cresent kicks out just barely grazing his face. And then I got caught with a pretty good hook in the eye. Not enough to bruise but more contact than Im used to sparring. So then I started making contact a little harder, not that I minded at all, but it was enough contact to get people to stop and watch. When we were in the changing room to go home he said that until I actually made decent contact with my cresents, he said he really didnt think I could hit him and thats why he popped me after it missed. I have ran into this problem with lower ranks late punching me or catching my leg after Im polite enough to stop it at their face instead of hitting them. SO do you think while sparring you should pop them pretty good so they know it was there? Not real hard but enough to leave a red mark. Or use control and stop it as close as you can?