Damian,
Follow my link here or from my ad in the School Management Forum.
http://www.cdouglashall.com
My service offers you access to the largest network of attorneys in N. America and you can ask them stuff like this and for example get them to represent at no additional charge if your boyfriend/anyone sues you in civil court for any reason, including defending yourself.
It starts at $16/mo. Email me if you have other questions, I notice they have changed my website. The service is very comprehensive and covers your entire family. If you are in San Antonio, I have references you can check with about whether this works and how it works.
I think this story is crap, but I can not give legal advice as I am not an attorney. Since I am licensed to sell this plan I also hesitate just to give my opinion because I want to stay out of trouble. This lady needs my service badly though. She is very misinformed.
I hope this helps. Don't hesistate to contact me via email
[email protected]
Good luck.