We recently enrolled our 5 year old sonin the Tiny Tigers program with "Karate for Kids" with theATA. We pay $80 a month and the instructor is very good with thekids. My son loves him and the in the last couple of months, we havereally seen our son's confidence level go up. They work the kidshard and I can tell it's a good workout for him too.
The ATA is a nationally run chain of martial art schools, with a centralized program, meaning what is offered here will be very close to what is offered elsewhere. From articles that I have read about the ATA, it seems they have instructor training programs (to help the instructors teach the different courses and to advance in their studies etc. etc. and also help in how to run their schools etc. etc.). So that being said it is a pretty solid organization business wise.
Paying $80.00 a month is not unheard of and in fact in some areas can be considered quite low. However I take it it is the kids program and if upgraded to another program expect the cost to go up significantly.
Be realistic for what you are paying. Your 5 year son probably isn't going to be defeating a grown man, but he might be learning skills (such as calling 911 or yelling for help instead of freezing) that might end up saving his life and what would be that be worth to you? You said your sons confidence level has gone up, so how much is that worth to you? He's getting a good workout so how much is that worth? I take it he is learning to obey, the concepts of working hard to achieve something, that setting a goal and achieving it is worth value because then you get to learn more stuff you get to help lead or move up in the line etc. etc. (as in earning more rank you get more privileges and more responsibilities). These are life skills that for a 5 year old is real hard to explain but here in his class he gets to experience it first hand. This will be an area that you can always bring him back to to help reinforce those concepts later on in life "remember when you were in class and.....".
Using his hands and feet he is improving his coordination, his focus and concentration. He is learning how to obey, the concepts of authority etc. etc. This is so much more than just punching and kicking and learning to defend yourself.
As an example a teller at my credit union knows I teach "karate" (we've talked off and on for several months about her son) and she had enrolled her son in a TKD school who is 4 or 5. So I talked with her about my teaching kids in the 5-6 yr old range and some learning issues etc. etc. A couple of weeks ago I asked her how her son was doing and she told me they recently upgraded him in the BBC club, immediately alarm bells went off, but then she almost came to tears that her son is now getting mat chats (character improvement), he is doing better in school, his confidence has come up, he is obeying her etc. etc. and he loves going to class. So who am I to tell her that that program is designed to try and suck more money out of her. I mean she is so happy she is tearing up telling me of the change in her child and how much that means to her. She is gladly paying the tuition because of the change in her son. Again who am I to say he isn't learning anything or that she is paying to much.
However, I recently stumbled upon theterm, "McDojo" and feel fairly certain we are at one. There are upgraded classes like the Leadership program or the BlackBelt Club, etc.
I really wouldn't worry about terms. Just because there are classes like the leadership program or black belt clubs means you have more options for your son to train in. However just be realistic about the outcomes of the programs and what they contain. Will your son at 5, or at 7, or at 12, get the same value by taking a leadership or weapons course as an adult? Will they be able to understand the use of the weapon, are they using real weapons, or are they toys? It's kind of like the claim I heard from one of the mother of a student (who was relocating to a different state) who was looking at different MA schools. This school is supposed to be good cause the owner (insert instructor) was a ___________ Champion. What good is that? If he is a Champion (in say Olympic TKD) does that mean my kid will be one too? Do I want that for my kid? Will I make the sacrifices nessecary for my kid to compete at that level etc. etc.? JUst because the person was a champion doesn't mean that is what I'm looking for. Likewise if you are looking for real weapons training then someone who offers a different weapon each month course probably isn't the course to take, likewise a course that teaches 5-7 yr olds with foam Kamas (sickles) might not be the course either.
However at an open tournament a few years back I talked with a mother who's son was ranked 3rd in the state in blue belt weapons division. He did a very flashy kata (form) with a graphite toothpick bo that he made up himself. The mom was so proud of her son for making up that kata and for all of the hard work that went into it, and it showed he was ranked 3rd in the state. Now to me it was utterly worthless, I mean it had no combative merits to it at all. It was pure gymnastic art with a martial toy. But who am I to tell her that what her son created was worthless to me? She got what she paid for for her son's lessons, his achievements far outweighed what she paid for the classes and my opinion.
The kids move up in belt rank aboutevery 2 months. I think an 8 year old kid could be a black belteasily. This never seemed quite right to me even before I learnedabout McDojos.
If you don't agree with this practice you can either quit, or be realistic that an 8 yr old shouldn't be a black belt and not be not be put off by it. Nothing says your son must be or will be a black belt by the time he is 8. Also there is no magical thing about being a black belt, your son's (potential) black belt is really only recognized in another ATA school. But if your school's standards are; if a kid is ready they can promote that early fine, that doesn't mean any other school would honor it and give him the same rank, priveledges, and responsibilities as your school would. A 8 yr old isn't going to have to register his hands as deadly weapons
. All the black belt means is that in your school your son passed a test, he learned a body of techniques, and did them at a certain level and was tested for it. If my son was in a program and he passed the test I would celebrate it, maybe stop by the ice cream store on the way down to the police station.
They had belt testing last night andevery kid passed. Even the ones who laid there like a slug. Now Ican SORT OF understand in the Tiny Tigers program - maybe movingeveryone up to build confidence or something. I'm not sure when thekids are moved to the next program if the testing is harder. I hopeso.
So, in the Tiny Tigers, there are whitebelts and green belts and "camo belts??" all learning thesame moves for testing. Again, I hope this is not what olderstudents do. Wouldn't a higher belt want/need to be learningdifferent things than a lower belt student?
They DO do sparing and do kick pads and bags.
I don't agree with this practice but like another poster said the kids pass the test prior to stepping out on the floor, they earned it by their attendance in class and by their hard work. In my classes it is more of a demonstration and a rite of passage than a "pass fial test". In my school the students tests are progressively harder as they advance, but what I expect a child to do and what I expect a teen/adult to do are two different things. I don't even allow my students to "coast" prior to testing, if they want to coast they stay at their current rank, if they work hard they learn more and test. Tuition and rank are not tied together.
The belts are to mark advancement, some schools use tips, some use belts. Again what is a tip in one school could be a belt in another so you can't say a green belt is the same in one system or school as in any other school. But generally though in a large organization (such as the ATA) I would believe that a green belt in one shcool will have similar skills and time in grading as another ATA school.
We actually love the school. As Isaid, the instructor is great with the kids and they are learning. Ithink just like in regular school, the kids who have parents who pushthem to do well, will do well. The kids who's parents allow them tojust lay there won't get much out of it.
But.... maybe this is fine for our 5year old son. It's getting him active and building confidence andit's fun. Are we going to regret it when he's older and reallydoesn't actually KNOW martial arts?
What age will a ĀgoodĀ school evenaccept a student? Is 5 too young?
What are your thoughts on this?
Thanks so much!
It sounds to me like your current school is a good fit for you and your son, you have spoken positively about how it has benifited your son, you have spoken positively about the instructor. I think you might have some confusion, hesitation, loss of confidence in it hearing about the term Mc Dojo, but really who cares what we think on a forum. If it has helped your son that is what matters in the long run, not whether someone who isn't there and not involved with that school thinks.
In closing I normally take students who are 6 yrs. old, however I have taken them as young as 5 if they behave. Your son is not to young to benift from martial arts practice.