Originally posted by rmcrobertson
Why wouldn't I call him, "Steve," or, "Steven," except in certain very-limited formal situations? I wouldn't ask him or anybody else to call me anything other than my regular old name....and I was always taught as a kid to address people as "Mr.," or, "Mrs.," or, "Ms," (I now just go with Mizz...), and they would tell me to just use their first name, if I were old enough, after formal introductions got made. What's wrong with that?
This titling stuff is ridiculous. Lemme tell you something about titles: without exception, every single one of the most-famous scholars I've ever met introduced themselves as, "Bob Scholes," or, "Ed Thompson," or whatever--and every single self-important lesser light I've met has insisted on his (and surprise, surprise, "his," is half the problem) title. Hell, I was out at a meeting with distance students a couple of weeks ago, and the dweeb I was sitting next to had his title on a shirt-pocket name-tag he apparantly wore everywhere.
I've had occasion to mention this before, so maybe here's something new--over-titling is the flip side of the same coin as disrespect for the arts we study and our instructors. It's part of the same damn problem as people studying for, say, three months and announcing that they've got it All Figured Out...and, it's part of the same mean sniping that Mr. Bishop was trying to respond to politely.