AKJA-
your welcome: "Be like water" anology is one of my favorite he quoted. Bruce was very in tune with this one. He used it far more than any other anology i've ever heard him use.
"be like water" is like an end all statement that in a no nonsense way conforms to everything JKD stands for. And for that mater that Martial Arts in General stands for.
" if water is pourn into a cup, it becomes the cup".
WATER becomes it's surroundings in that sense.
we as martial artist today take for granted that what we learn is spent on knowledge seeked from our instructors , instructors, passed on to us. And that thier somewhere is some valdity to it.
IF JKD was only a name and there was to be no fuss over it, then why is thier a fuss over it? JKDC, OJKD, JKDU, HCJKD, etc...
JKD is JKD no matter what you believe in, in my eyes. If it works for you than its Jeet kune do. ( the way of the intercepting fist)
And AKJA I feel you in he sense of the loyalty part.
However, I say this, to each his own... somewhere they must find thier own path. JKD is an unlimitless path. Even Bruce took it.
SIJO was never qualified or certified to teach in any particular system or style. He took what he felt best suited him and created a system that is controversial today. Who else can do that?
Let your own students created their own path...Not even Sijo was loyal to GM Yip Man, Sijo was sore at GM yip because he held back certain training from bruce in the wing chun system, such as mook jong etc....
Loyalty is taught by the integrity of the teacher, and not every student holds that key....INTEGRITY, HONOR, RESPECT, SELF DISCIPLINE, is the biggest things martial arts is supposed to teach us outside of "self defense".. that come last ....its on the teacher, I have somewhat the same issue as you do brother, thiers a couple of guys I took on as "students" that in the same sense are commited but lack the integrity of being high class students....see I dont charge for lessons but I do my best for adding insight and respect, self discipline, and making my name to be on the top end of things.....if these "specific" people bring me down, I dont blame them. I blame myself.
One works with me (like you) and he gives a great deal of effort but his lifestyle needs to change on how he reacts and acts to certain things.....
the other has been with me for a few years but his schedule at College get in his way from training and it bothers me that he isnt getting the just out of what he is looking for.... my co-instructor see's him off and on, and invites him reguraly but this person I understand has alot of things goin on within his college life and has great experience and well to be an excellent martial artist, chooses other paths than to train, for what ever its worht.. I dont hold it against him, because I respect him as a person and I wish that when were together that he can train with me... out of everyone i've trained i've put my whole self into his training and itshows....he can go far.....one day I hope that he never forgets where he got his training from and that he looks back on that....however if he doesnt, than thats life..."it goes on"
Just alittle of my own knowledge...
IMAA....