"Which brings me to my disagreement."
Good, so let's just start there.
"I am very much opposed to an overly macho unrealistic portrayal of MA. I think that our culture and that our sex has twisted the meaning of self-defense equating it to fighting. If you look at the thread, “how many fights have you been in?” You will see my point."
Okay, I can see how you would regard this as a bad thing. In what way do you think my post or thread appeared to be following that kind of demented train of thought?
"In a self-defense situation, I think that training in “fighting” arts leaves you with large holes in your training."
Agreed. But likewise, sd training that does not include fighting is very holey.
"Lets take for example the scenario involving multiple attackers. Five. Who really feels confident that they could defeat five attackers at once?"
Defeat? Why do you impute that I think that folks ought to be trying to defeat 5 guys? I'd really like to know where you're getting that. What in my posts seems to be suggesting this? If you "fight your way out" in order to create an avenue for escape, you're fighting. That's fighting, you need that for s-d.
"training for real fighting means that you are willing to abuse your body and take the injuries in order to build the skill – that is the only way to win."
I think that is a category mistake. It's not central to our disagreement, but constant injury is not a necessity for the development of fighting skill. An athletically-conditioned body can take a lot of punishment (especially if it is meted out in a safe, scientific manner) before yielding a serious sprain or fracture. If you have muscle tone, cardiovascular conditioning, etc., you can do a lot of stuff very good contact with only occasional fluke injuries. Like, I can't conceive how you were stabbed twice in training. There is no excuse to be using a live blade in training, or even one narrow and hard enough to allow penetration with a stab.
"Lets down play our expectations. Do you think that you could escape from five guys committed to taking you down?"
Sometimes I could, sometimes I couldn't. Depends on the guys, the spatial setting, myself, the totality of circumstances. I don't presume that I can, and in most circumstances, if they had any clue what they're doing, I would think not. I know what I would do to give the best likelihood of denying them the takedown and escaping. But so what? What are you getting at?
"There is a tactic that we use in security. It is called “the swarm.” If you have ever seen this done, it is rather magnificent. Five guys attack at the same time from all angles, grabbing the defender and falling on that person. I did security at a heavy metal concert and we took down a man who was in his prime and he was six foot eight and close to three hundred pounds. I don’t care who you are, the swarm works and that is what you face in a real street fight. People don’t line up and wait to get hit."
Understood. I instruct non-abusive restraint tactics. And what does this have to do with our disagreement?
"Fighting arts do not work in this situation because they do not teach the techniques to deal with this situation. Strike points, vital points, eyes, groin, throat, break a finger, pull a knife and slash until you are free."
How is that NOT fighting? For the love of murphy, that's fighting in a nutshell! As far as I'm concerned, you've just about said, "Fighting won't work here--you need to actually FIGHT!" That's how much sense that seems to make to me. Though personally I am not a fan of points, for reasons that I will bring up in a separate thread. Mainly it has to do with difficulties with fine/complex motor execution under adrenaline dumps. Instead of areas of activation the size of a nickel, I am looking for areas of activation the size of a man's hand, which can be slammed into with elbows, shins, tac folders, and, well, a hand among other things.
"Many arts that do not teach a person how to fight teach these skills."
Then what the hell are they teaching? How can that possibly NOT be fighting? Unless these are taught as dead patterns, that's fighting. Get off this "sport fighting" trip you're on and look at what the word fighting means for a change. This is obviously clouding your judgement.
"My point is that you shouldn’t discount a martial art just because it doesn’t teach much fighting skills. There is other information that is important, too and it is all “martial” in its own way even if you can’t understand how at this particular moment in time."
I think you grossly "misunderestimate" me, as your illustrious national leader would say. I've trained several years in these so-called more "profound" arts. As a person of Asian descent, I have enjoyed the insider scoop on a lot of this stuff after I swear to them that I won't show it to "whitie". (I don't know how I could possibly keep this promise. It all blurs together anyway.) I have a very clear sense of the mechanics and applications of many of the obscure arts. You may or may not be surprised to hear that some of it is not all that different than what we do in RBSD, save that the training METHOD differs.
But let's look at this in a completely pragmatic sense. Training is a process, it is a form of physical education that a person chooses to undergo because of certain goals they have. So the training method that is alive, ecologically valid, and teaches a person to apply it practically in a matter of days is more successful at achieving its objective.
That is all I am saying. Like I said, I don't complain to cheerleaders that they should stop doing their thing because it's "useless", nor do I heckle clowns or guys who pull train cars with their teeth. Nor do I heckle traditionalists who want to take 25 years to master something they think is cool. But when it comes to a simple matter like self-defense, I WILL insist that it is a practical issue where measureable results matter, expediency is of value, and some things are better to do than others.
So do I deny that certain approaches are of value? Well I can't determine how people gauge value. If the scale of value is enhancing people's survivability in the event of an assault, then this is a very objective matter in which some approaches and methods are clearly superiour to others.