Seems that there are a lot of people who have never been in a real street brawl running around here. first thing to decide is can I leave and not get hurt in leaving? If you cant, then its time to decide what type of situation you are in. Is it an I'm going to get hurt real bad if I dont do something now situation, or is it a this ******* isnt going to touch or push me or one of my family around and I need to stop or subdue him now situation.
Then you decide how bad do you want to hurt who ever it is that is attacking you. Are you putting them down so they cant get back up. If that is your intent then throat, groin, knees are the order of stike points I usually like to do, and use them in a combination ending with an elbow or knee strike to a major joint or head to finish with maybe a stomp if they really have me pissed off. Or if I am going to submit them its: a sweep, armbar, or joint lock, ending in a throw or sweep to get them on the ground and then into some sort of submission hold to a major joint or the throat to explain why messing with me is a bad idea.
But no matter which situation I'm in I never give them a chance or a warning, You make your decision and then take them out using which ever method you decide on. There is no being fair in a street fight because no matter who you are or how good you are anyone can get their butt kicked on any given day, so if you are going to defend yourself you make your decision and take them down till they cannot hurt you back. No warnings, no talking, save the talking till they cant hurt you. Then you can talk all you want to or better yet get the hell out of there as fast as you can and dont look back. Count your self lucky your the one walking away.