Aiki Lee
Master of Arts
I thought it was to learn how to fight.
My dad taught me some karate when I was a kid, but I didn't take it seriously until I started getting bullied pretty hard. So I strated training seriously to learn to fight, then I switched systems because I thought I could learn to fight better. I did, but now that I'm older I realize that's not really why I did it.
I had a need to learn to fight because I was scared of other people. Learning to fight would make me stronger, and being strong would make me fearless, I reasoned. Only I found out that while I love martial arts, I HATE fighting. I think it is important to know how to fight, but it is more important to learn how to overcome fear.
I train in martial arts because it teaches me to overcome fears about everything. I can stand up to people because I know I can protect myself. I can reach out to others who are afraid and alone because I have discovered strength in myself. Martial arts give me confidence in a way no sport or other activity can because it puts me in situations where I must overcome great fear (such as being punched in the face, or thrown from a great height) and forces me to take control of the situation.
I started martial arts really because I wanted to be brave. I train in it still because bravery is a fine line to walk.
My dad taught me some karate when I was a kid, but I didn't take it seriously until I started getting bullied pretty hard. So I strated training seriously to learn to fight, then I switched systems because I thought I could learn to fight better. I did, but now that I'm older I realize that's not really why I did it.
I had a need to learn to fight because I was scared of other people. Learning to fight would make me stronger, and being strong would make me fearless, I reasoned. Only I found out that while I love martial arts, I HATE fighting. I think it is important to know how to fight, but it is more important to learn how to overcome fear.
I train in martial arts because it teaches me to overcome fears about everything. I can stand up to people because I know I can protect myself. I can reach out to others who are afraid and alone because I have discovered strength in myself. Martial arts give me confidence in a way no sport or other activity can because it puts me in situations where I must overcome great fear (such as being punched in the face, or thrown from a great height) and forces me to take control of the situation.
I started martial arts really because I wanted to be brave. I train in it still because bravery is a fine line to walk.