From what I remember about how to win in wrestling from the days I wrestled here's how you win. The preferred and most obvious way to win is by pinning your opponent. If you don't win by pinning you can win by points. If the match ends and nobody is pinned than the wrestler with the most points wins. Now, as I remember its 2 points for a takedown, 2 points for an escape, and 3 points for a reversal. Im not sure if that is right or if it has changed or if there's other ways you can get points.