james,
you are right, it is something special...something special between the giver and receiver. why should anyone else give a damn? they will never understand the meaning behind it. i say if someone receives an honorary rank in the martial arts, they have made an impact on the person that gives it. who cares
the problem lies in the fact that there are martial artists that are so insecure in their beliefs, they feel offended that someone got something for free. well obviously it wasn't free. like i stated above, an impact was made on the person presenting the honorary rank. the people that are offended are upset because the person in question didn't get the coveted black belt based on their standards (or that of the association they pour money into). why should anyone else give a damn? i certainly don't. i know what my rank means to me. i imagine others do as well.
it seems people are confusing the meaning behind your thread. it's their own fault.
honorary and fake are two different ideas. some people get lost in this fact.
the "key to the city" comparison is a very good one. lets say you, as a mayor, bestow this honor on a respectable citizen of your community. what if i, as a mayor of a neighboring community, feel that that person didn't really do anything special, especially in comparison to my own city's standards? what brings about these feelings? jealousy, insecurity, and ignorance.
just my .02.