OMG you just walked me down a LOT of static...Memory Lane style.As a Black TKD 5th dan,I have had MUCHO static slung my way for NOT being Korean.I mean...it's EXTRA BAD for Black folks,lol.What makes it worse is that I have half-Korean cousins and they tell me HORROR STORIES about how they were treated in Seoul before they came here.One of my sisters is Korean,and one of my daughters is 1/4 Korean.I remember for years that nobody would spar me because I was good and nobody would risk their reputation as a Master against me because they might lose to--well--the word translates as "ancient farm equipment" and it's an extremely derogatory reference to the slave history of Black people in the U.S.A.So nobody Korean gave me my dan,no Korean master came to my promotions,and I wasn't even accepted--TWICE--in tourneys run by Koreans as 3rd dan (back when I was a 3rd) because nobody believed that I actually received that rank.Right next to me? 4 White 3rd dans had NO PROBLEM being accepted,and if it wasn't for a White 5th dan vouching for me (thanks Scott) I wouldn't've even been able to PARTICIPATE AT ALL.
I was not amused.
2 years ago I finally sparred a Korean Master who was a high rank,dazzlingly skilled former South Korean national champion.Just before I stepped onto the mat with him,I learned that the only reason I was being allowed to spar with this man was because I was to be sharply and adroitly "punished" for "daring" to claim to hold rank that belongs only to "true Koreans" and not "shameful slaves".This knowledge from my ubiquitous secret informers was confirmed by the very first combination kick that was thrown by this skilled Korean,who just missed taking my head off with 2 kicks thrown in a 6 kick lightning combo which I barely managed to evade.Okay,he was coming for blood.These were full powered kicks that would break bones,not the "usual fare" hard kicks in sparring.
I proceeded to whoop his azz.
Punches,knees,elbows,slams,sweeps,traps,Kenpo hands,boxing,Judo and wrestling slams and throws,and...sweetest of all...I KO'd him with a full powered head kick that cracked against his skull from his left ear along his jawline to his chin.While standing over his crumpled,inert form I turned and faced the suddenly stone faced half circle of Korean Masters,bowed perfunctorily,and left.
Haven't heard or word nor seen hide nor hair of them since.
Interestingly,my very traditional Korean Hapkido Grandmaster...Grandmaster Chu...was TICKLED TO DEATH when he found out (I didn't tell him he somehow knew via the Korean grapevine) what happened,and he couldn't stop telling me how proud he was of me.I received my black from him THAT DAY,even though I hadn't learned all the forms of his unique blend of hapkido taekwondo hung gar kuk sool won and hwarangdo yet.However...even HE never came to my TKD black belt promotions.I didn't want to put him in some awkward position by asking him to come when I noted he didn't seem overly enthused at the prospect.