Gifts for Women

[Blooming Lotus]

Ok, no jewelry for you

then again... do I still get the other stuff???

I mean.........

 

[Blooming Lotus]

I never said that there was anything wrong with it. I don't think personally I want to be involved with a woman that has guns and knives strapped to her wearing that type of outfit is all!

it's not what we're wearing so much as how quick you can get it off ........... and that boys is when you know your gift was good!!

 

[jfarnsworth]

Now that......... cracked me up.

 

[jfarnsworth]

Actually, I'm a bit concerned. Jason, if I'm only now beginning to scare you, I clearly haven't been doing my job.

C'MERE!!!

I don't scare that easily. :uhyeah:

 

[D_Brady]

Correct me if I'm wrong but if you send a women for a full day of spa treatment , it's good for everyone.

It can be the type of payback you look forward to :ultracool

 

[Gin-Gin]

Correct me if I'm wrong but if you send a women for a full day of spa treatment , it's good for everyone. It can be the type of payback you look forward to :ultracool

Yes, most definitely! After a day at the spa, life is good (especially if they have chocolate!) :lol:

 

[KenpoTess]

Uhh, your highness... if you didn't want your significant other to read this then why did ya go ahead and post it hmmm? This is probably the most obvious of hints. :wink1:

Heh, gads I love this place. So cool to just kid around in.

That bath jelly looks... well.. lets just say I'd be rawther hesitant to get into it. Probably an acquired thing I reckon.

well Yeah~!! That's the whole point *giggling*
He will look..

I dunno, that jelly bath stuff rather intrigues me in a veritable curious way

 

[shesulsa]

Correct me if I'm wrong but if you send a women for a full day of spa treatment , it's good for everyone.

If Mama ain't happy, nobody is.

 

[D_Brady]

If Mama ain't happy, nobody is.

Even more so when Mama has this thing about knives. %-}

 

[shesulsa]

Hey - "Something shiny" doesn't always have to be a diamond.

 

[KenpoTess]

oh.. a hedonistic day would leave me luciously blissful..

 

[D_Brady]

Hey - "Something shiny" doesn't always have to be a diamond.

I like that, I compare that to knives as a man's diamond. When a women gets a new diamond ring she shows to all her friends, holds her hand out to see how it looks.

Now a man with a new knife has to show it all his friends hold up to see how it looks and even pose in the mirror see how others see him with it. sometimes even choose which knife to carry based on the occasion.

Looking at it now men can be like that with diamonds and women with knives.

:idunno:

 

[KenpoTess]

Hey Georgia, How about a diamond encrusted dagger?

This Turkish Topkapi Dagger would be most shiny

 

[Flatlander]

Oooooooooooo that's a sexy weapon...

 

[shesulsa]

Best of both worlds! But then I'd have to have a few more weapons because someone will probably try to steal it from me! %-}

 

[INDYFIGHTER]

Here's a questions for the women of MT. Been dating a this girl for several months but things are not going well. I want to give her something nice for Christmas, a guitar. Not the most expensive guitar but still not a cheap item. I've found one I think she'll like and have it layaway. I'm not exactly sure where I stand with her right now but even if we're through I'd like to give her the guitar. I'm afraid that she may think it's a move of desperation. Any thoughts?

 

[jfarnsworth]

I know I'm going to look like a jerk but....

Save your money and move onward. Ask yourself if you had a son your age would you recommend him spend time on/with this woman.

 

[Feisty Mouse]

Here's a questions for the women of MT. Been dating a this girl for several months but things are not going well. I want to give her something nice for Christmas, a guitar. Not the most expensive guitar but still not a cheap item. I've found one I think she'll like and have it layaway. I'm not exactly sure where I stand with her right now but even if we're through I'd like to give her the guitar. I'm afraid that she may think it's a move of desperation. Any thoughts?

I guess it depends on how good/bad things are. If it really looks like things are over, I would not gift such a large gift, although that is truly generous and very thoughtful! If it just seems to be a rough patch, but you are still staying together, I would definetly give her the guitar - and then tell her she should write you a song about how wonderful you are!

For myself... I like the sparkly gifts. A knife would be nice too, but I have little hands, and I would need to check the knife out to see if it would fit comfortably in my little birdlike hands.

Jewelry and a day at the spa... ah! THAT would make me feel like a million bucks!

But I would also be happy with dinner, wine or champagne, and a scenic view to share.

 

[shesulsa]

I'd have to agree.

I think it depends on why things are uncertain and just how genuine you are about why you want her to have the guitar regardless of your status with her. It could be you are generous to a fault and should save your money. If you truly have no idea as to where you stand with this girl, perhaps a good thing to do would be to ask her. It really isn't that hard and it could be as simple as a misunderstanding you can clear up with a short conversation.

But ... it's a big gift for someone you are on questionable terms with. Flowers are lest expensive but always appreciated. A relatively inexpensive but still nice piece of jewelry can be found at one-stop shopping stores like Target, Kmart, Walmart, etc. and you could still afford a CD to boot.

Might want to talk to her first (and bring a 'just because' card and a single rose) and clear the air first. Then you'll know better whether to bother or not.

Good luck!

 

[INDYFIGHTER]

Thanks everyone for your advice. I didn't want to go to deep into things here. It's complicated but I'm hooked and she was too and now she's not or something I don't know but I still think she's amazing and would like to give her the guitar cause I know she'd have it to play forever. (I play) Flowers die, jerwlery goes in boxes, clothes go on hangers, books go on shelves. I just wanted her to have somthing she would use and enjoy. Have to say it was impulsive to put the money down. I could use the money for in-store credit but I think I'm going to buy the guitar and hang onto it a while. Thank you all for your thoughts.