You're opinions about addicition just don't hold water or hold up to the research. Addicition isn't about mental weakness...addicition is not really a choice. A person can be discipplined in many areas if life...but somewhere in the neurochemical makeup is this prediliction to a certain behavior. It may be dirnking, could be using certian drugs, could be gambling, eating...whatever. It sites there lurking. When presented with the addicitve stimulus, your brain sabotages you. Your 'willpower' goes right out the window....you're hooked.
Here's the thing....you don't know what that hook is until you've been exposed to it. An alcoholic who never is exposed to alcohol will not manifest the addicittion...but have a drink or two and it's game over. Conversely, there are plenty of stories of soldiers in the Vietnam era who turned to heroine in times of extreme stress...became physically addicted....had to go through detoix and never touched the stuff again once back in the states. Plenty of others spent their lives chasing the dragon as it were.
With things like eating, shopping, etc. They are even more insidioous becasue, unlike drugs or alcohol, one needs to eat and shop, etc to get through day to day life. One has the unenviable task to learn to manage the addicitve stimulus rather than just avoid it all together. It takes more than the usual amount of "willpower" to do something...most people (soldier or no) are simply not up to the task. It takes a life time of hard trials and persistence to make any headway.
To those who have not had to struggle with any sort of addicition, thank your lucky stars that you've been so lucky. To those of you have are struggling...know that some of us respect your strength and are silently pulling for you.
Peace,
Erik
Here's the thing....you don't know what that hook is until you've been exposed to it. An alcoholic who never is exposed to alcohol will not manifest the addicittion...but have a drink or two and it's game over. Conversely, there are plenty of stories of soldiers in the Vietnam era who turned to heroine in times of extreme stress...became physically addicted....had to go through detoix and never touched the stuff again once back in the states. Plenty of others spent their lives chasing the dragon as it were.
With things like eating, shopping, etc. They are even more insidioous becasue, unlike drugs or alcohol, one needs to eat and shop, etc to get through day to day life. One has the unenviable task to learn to manage the addicitve stimulus rather than just avoid it all together. It takes more than the usual amount of "willpower" to do something...most people (soldier or no) are simply not up to the task. It takes a life time of hard trials and persistence to make any headway.
To those who have not had to struggle with any sort of addicition, thank your lucky stars that you've been so lucky. To those of you have are struggling...know that some of us respect your strength and are silently pulling for you.
Peace,
Erik