That doesn't exactly qualify you as Nostrodamus. What surprised me was that for about 15 minutes things looked like they wouldn't fall apart.
You don't need to be nostrodamus. that's the thing.
If you can't see this distinction there isn't much I can do about it on an internet forum.
ok.
Your rather crass example not withstanding, I don't think I said anything about "worrying." You can be prepared for many things without being worried they will or will not happen. Likewise, you can be prepared for a few things and not worried about whether or not something you're unprepared for happens. Those are just states of mind. They do not necessarily impact what actually happens in reality.
If you don't like that example, then choose another. Board breaking. Testing. Competing at a tournament. competing for a national team spot. being a center referee. public speaking. whatever. It really doesn't matter because the process is the same. The less we know, the less experience we have, the more "concerned" we are with uncertainty. The first time you do anything it people naturally get nervous because they don't know what to expect. So the natural inclination is to over concern ourselves with what can go wrong. But if you do it a few times and those fears subside.
And if you don't like the word "worry" then substitute your word "concern". Same thing from my perspective. as for states of mind, again from my perspective, the more experience, the less worrying, or as you would say less "concern" about what will or won't happen. your state of mind changes with experience. that's all. you are free to disagree.