Brandon Fisher
Master Black Belt
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Yeah I guess they are pretty sharp .At least your students have some brains and you've taught them some common sense....
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Yeah I guess they are pretty sharp .At least your students have some brains and you've taught them some common sense....
Nope her parents told me if I made her take her black belt off they would not sign her up because it would be devastating to her. I told them I would not be a party to a child holding such a rank. They tried to justify it as it was a kids rank. I didn't buy so they didn't come back. Sadder yet even my students thought it was joke.
This relates very nicely to another thread about respect and rank. Here is a child who holds a Sandan. Does she get any respect? Probably quite a bit, but not from anyone who knows better. Further, there can be little or no respect for the material she has learned. It was just a collection of boxes to tick off to attain certificates. Brandon described her as being significantly worse than her rank suggested, so techniques were learned without understanding.
I don't want to sound like I am hounding this young lady, she, afterall, just jumped through the required hoops, as we all do. The onus for developing understanding begins with the teacher. The Self Esteem Academy of Martial Arts? Oh Yeah! And its here to stay.
It is not just the claiming of rank, usually of outrageous levels, that leaves a bad taste in the mouths of many martial artists. Situations like this must contribute to the distaste
I believe the situation could be even worse outside the dojo and on the street. We allow ourselves to believe in the fatal myth that self esteem can and should be bestowed without the actual skills, training and competence being present. This self delusion is too often exploded on the street.
His story is that his dad was stationed in Thailand, where he apparently did nothing but study Eishun Ryu 8 hours a day, every day, for a couple of years. At the time, my sister still liked the guy, so I didn't really question it. But it always seemed kind of fishy to me. Don't get me wrong, he has great martial art skills, and I don't doubt that he spent a lot of time training, but a 10th degree in a couple of years?
I believe the situation could be even worse outside the dojo and on the street. We allow ourselves to believe in the fatal myth that self esteem can and should be bestowed without the actual skills, training and competence being present. This self delusion is too often exploded on the street.
So much for Cho Dan being "just the beginning," huh?I was at a party a few years ago and a woman came up and asked if it was true that I taught martial arts. After admitting that I did she told me that she'd have to introduce me to her son as he was a black belt and we've have a lot to talk about. This woman looked about my own age (early 40s back then) so I asked her how old her son was. He was 12 or 13 and already a 3rd or 4th degree black belt. In her mind, paying somebody to babysit her kid and fork over money for promotions every few weeks meant that his experience was comparable to my 20 something years of training and experience. After making polite chat for a few more minutes, I slipped away and successfully avoided her the rest of the evening. For all I know, she's still trying to arrange a play date for me and Junior.
I like your reasoning. This is one way to make a liar recind his/her bogus stories.If you doubt at all the comments made by many people here, ask your friend if he would put you in contact with his teacher to confirm what he says.
If he gives you any excuse to avoid that, then you know he is lying.
Anyone who has been lied to by a fraud is quick to back up what they say by pointing questioners in the direction of their teacher- who turns out to be the fraud. Those that are unwilling to give their teacher's name or contact information are the ones trying to hide something.
And the reason for that is that they are lying!
Can I make myself more clear?
I can tell you what his answer will be...If you doubt at all the comments made by many people here, ask your friend if he would put you in contact with his teacher to confirm what he says.
If he gives you any excuse to avoid that, then you know he is lying.
Anyone who has been lied to by a fraud is quick to back up what they say by pointing questioners in the direction of their teacher- who turns out to be the fraud. Those that are unwilling to give their teacher's name or contact information are the ones trying to hide something.
And the reason for that is that they are lying!
Can I make myself more clear?
If I were a betting man, I would wager my finest exotic hardwood weapons (and they're very nice ones at that, being made of purpleheart, ipe, Brazilian cherry, or Brazilian rosewood)