It has evolved over the last 32 years I have been training. At first, after 4 years of wrestling in high school, it was my pre - ADD diagnosis times of maintaining equilibrium and becoming less anal......I have always been active and use to get in trouble in school making straight As and getting bad act marks. This cured it before I got to college. I was also small and needed to defend myself, and love the way kung fu would study animals for years and develop fighting styles, it appealed to my intellect. Also, always wanted a Master's degree in the martial arts, and a Master's in Finance, and got both of them in my mid to late 40s!!!
As far as chicks, none of my two ex wives and one current wife find it fascinating, and one ex and two kids are Asian and half Asian respectively. I find most chicks either are intimidated, figure we are violent, or do not trust any man who would purposely hurt himself like that!! Luckily, I haved studied Yang tai chi the last 12 years so I can either be Tai Chi Mike or Kung fu Mike.
Don't know.....kung fu will never leave you no matter how hard you treat it....LOL!!!