Bob Hubbard said:
Mark, Ever read American history from the British side? Our "revolution" is seen as a "revolt", and our "Civil War" was mocked as a failure in our "experiment in democracy" according to a friend of mine. Was a decade past, we had a chat about cultural differences. You have to remember history varies based on perspective.
In another chat I had a UK citizen mocking American belief in personal ownership of firearms and our distrust of government. He told me that he could perfectly trust his own government, and he wondered why Americans believed they had to own guns to trust ours. I pointed out that our distrust of government was directly BECAUSE of his government.
I should point out, however, that i'm not anti-British. As far as i'm concerned, the British have long been one of the best allies we have in the world (and vice-versa).
However, the idea that those 'misunderstood' islamic fundamentalists are just mad at the US is pure BS. Colonialism and Imperialism and their sordid history isn't owned by the US. Heck, if it hadn't been for those two destructive European wars, the British and French would likely still be fighting their colonial wars with indigenuous peoples. It wasn't conscience that ended the British Imperial rule, but circumstances. I'm just pointing out that 'he without sin should cast the first stone' metaphorically speaking.
As far as the homosexual debate is concerned, it is, again, an issue to be settled by the individual voters of each state.
Of course, i've meandered off the path a bit. I'll return to the topic at hand.
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Back to the topic. What I take exception to is NOT gay marriage.....what I take exception to is the torture of the word 'right'. There is no right to marriage, at least no right to a state endorsed marriage. If the state decided to get out of the marriage business, no ones rights would be damaged. State endorsed marriages are a privilege bestowed by the states.
Rights, however, are not given. What right was granted by the constitution? That's a trick question. The constition merely recognized rights people already possessed. A right is an action that the state may not infringe upon. An example of this is freedom of assembly. The state doesn't bestow the freedom of speech upon you, you have it. The state may not infringe on that right, however.
A privilege is a useful status, however, that the state bestows on you. Driver's licenses are an example of this. So are marriage licenses. That's why you have to request permission from the state to do this thing, because it is a privelege, not a right. If it were a right, you would not be required to request permission, and the state would not have the right to refuse you. You would simply do it. What's more, you have to request that the state change your status on the privelege of marriage. For example, if you decide you do not want to be married anymore, or want to marry someone else, then you have to petition the court to 'allow' you to change that status....something the court is not REQUIRED to do. Why? Because it's not a right, it's a privilege, the regulation of which the state reserves for itself.
Name one RIGHT, guaranteed by the Constitution, that requires a license and permission from the state to engage in. The only example is firearms ownership, and that is not regulated throughout the entire country. What's more, it is argued that the licensing therein is a violation of those rights. What's more, the only reason that licensing is allowed on the part of firearms, is that it's the contention of many in the court that it's NOT a right. Therefore, if it were a right, licensing would be a violation.
So what we are left with is the argument that it is inherently unfair to be denied the same 'privileges' of some other citizens, simply because you don't fit the narrow definition of what allows that privilege. However, simply being denied a 'privilege' does not mean your rights are subsequently violated. It does mean that you are required to petition the legislature OR people themselves to amend the law to allow those privileges. I have no problem myself if that request is granted. But i'd prefer it be seen for what it is, and not what it isn't.
The reason that slavery was a violation of rights, while gay marriage was not, was that slavery was forcefully preventing people from exercising their rights. It wasn't because slaves were denied some official government granted privilege, it was because it denied people the right to exercise their natural born rights.
That is the difference. Denying gay marriage does not deny anyone the right to exercise their freedoms. No freedom is being infringed upon. I've heard everything from the freedom to pay taxes, to the fact that they couldn't make a living will, as reasons why marriage is a 'right'. But they don't stand up to the test of reason. Might granting the privilege of marriage to homosexual couples be the right thing to do? Possibly. But denying it on a state by state basis is NOT a violation of their 'rights'.