I read this thread with interest, having absolutly no clouded views that I fall under the "modern tkd" range. I would like to say though, my club holds true to some old traditions and they are my favourite. Our club is a family, we had people come train with us for a world competition and their comments a few weeks in were they couldn't believe the support we gave to each other, not only on the training level but on a personal level as well. We are expected to show ultimate respect to the instructors and black belts (all who took a min. of 4.5 years to get there). We are not a wtf. style (and headgear is optional after 18..but everyone wears it anyway!) It all sounds like you have had amazing past clubs and I hope you have clubs that continue to foster these important training skills, even if they are "modern" modified.
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