Best for me?

[Steve]

Yes, definitely! BJJ, MMA, and Muay Thai have appealed to me before. I'll gladly take some location names, if you don't mind.

Five rings is excellent. Ribiero/lovato jr affiliate. Very, very good.

Impact Jiu jitsu is also really good.

There are a ton, that I'm sure are excellent but these two I can personally recommend.

 

[crazydiamond]

My two cents

1) If your taking Testosterone, get your level up nice and solid, within male ranges, but above average, like 600's.
2) Follow a weightlifting program called 5x5 or 5x5 stronglifts. Use protein powder (I like stuff from Optimum Nutrition - Costco or Amazon).
3) Because I study it - I like KALI/FMA/JKD. A quick Google search yielded this school in Portland which covers this and BJJ Home Page