Hi,
New here. I am not looking to start a flame war. Let me start by saying I have a lot of respect for people who practice a martial art - regardless of style. Looking for feedback from experienced Chicago-area M.A. practitioners on helping me find/choose a Martial Art. I'm not looking for THE best martial art, or your best martial art...I'm looking for the best martial art for me.
I am not really looking for a traditional M.A. but I could end up there. I really was interested in Krav Maga, as that's what seemed more to what I'm looking for - geared towards self defense rather than sport-based. I was all set to sign up until I learned that it was $100/month for classes twice a week. So, here's a little about me & some thoughts:
I would love to hear your thoughts/suggestions. If you recommend a specific school or art, please let me know if you have personal experience with it. I thank you for your time.
PalmTree
New here. I am not looking to start a flame war. Let me start by saying I have a lot of respect for people who practice a martial art - regardless of style. Looking for feedback from experienced Chicago-area M.A. practitioners on helping me find/choose a Martial Art. I'm not looking for THE best martial art, or your best martial art...I'm looking for the best martial art for me.

I am not really looking for a traditional M.A. but I could end up there. I really was interested in Krav Maga, as that's what seemed more to what I'm looking for - geared towards self defense rather than sport-based. I was all set to sign up until I learned that it was $100/month for classes twice a week. So, here's a little about me & some thoughts:
- I'm closing in on 40. I am in decent shape physically. I work out a few times a week, cardio/weights. I don't have a lot of flexibility in my lower back. I can touch my toes, but even that's a stretch, pun intended. Like many other Americans, my finances are tight right now. I simply don't have a lot of money to spend per month on martial arts.
- I am going to rule out JUDO not because I don't think it's effective, but because at my age, I don't want to get thrown to the ground over & over. Trust me, if I could just be the one doing the throwing, I'd sign up. My best friend is a chiropractor. Many of his clients are judo practitioners.
- I am going to rule out KRAV MAGA and also BRAZILIAN JIU-JITSU not because of the art, but because of the cost...way too much for me.
- I am also going to rule out SILAT. I've tried Silat, and it's very practical once you learn it. However it takes years & years & years & years to get the hang of. I did it for almost a year, every class was different. We rarely did the same drills/moves twice, I didn't understand how I could progress in this manner. After almost a year, I still couldn't "walk/step" correctly.
- Also, the classes would have to be in a reasonable driving distance from me. A one-hour drive might be do-able, but then throw in traffic & snow in the winter and that adds up to me dropping out. I am on the far northside of Chicago. So, northside, north suburbs would be best.
I would love to hear your thoughts/suggestions. If you recommend a specific school or art, please let me know if you have personal experience with it. I thank you for your time.
PalmTree