As a newcomer to the sport, I've heard a lot of statements like "martial arts is total crap in a 'real' fight". "Experts say TKD is worthless in a street fight" "Karate is better than TKD, just watch this youtube clip", "Belt Factories", etc, etc.
I have the feeling that the place I go to could be classified as a belt factory, but isn't it really what you put into it is what you get out of it? When I'm there, I train like I mean it. Every punch and ever kick is just as if I were attacking a real person. When were asked to do 50 jumping jacks, I'm ususally the last to finish because I do all 50.
It's discouraging when squared off with someone whose so out of shape that then need to drop their arms to their side and rest from just hoping back and forth. You got your brown belt.....how?
Last rant. I always see these links to videos where some black belt in TKD gets his butt handed to him sparing against: a kickboxer, boxer, a monk, gang banger, you name it. Lets face it....some people simply just can't spar. TKD shouldn't be brushed aside as 'worthless' in a streetfight simply because not all students dont' bring their 'A Game' to class.
Off my soap box.
First and foremost, welcome to MT! Glad to have you.
Down to business...
TKD is not a sport. It is a martial art that is used for self defense purposes. There are people out there that train in TKD as if it were a sport, like football and baseball. These people are a huge part of why TKD is taken as a joke. I can't blame the public for thinking that TKD is nothing more than a kiddy day care belt factory that competes in tournements playing tag with full protective gear and no blocking skills for trophies. Schools keep putting it out there for the world to see, and the world sees it.
Anyone who decides to start learning TKD needs to ask themselves exactly what it is that they want to get out of it. Do you want to earn a bunch of trophies to show off to your friends, or do you want to learn how to protect yourself if you have to? Do you want to have somewhere to drop your kids off and not have to worry about them for an afternoon, or do you want them to learn how to not get themselves hurt or worse?
TKD as an art is neither superior or inferior to any other art out there. It simply is what it is: a method of fighting and defending. It's all up to the student and instructor as to how to interperate it. If the instructor is teaching you TKD because you need to learn to protect yourself, you're not going to get anything out of it by simply showing up to class in your uniform, jumping around for half an hour yelling "AAAAEEEEHHHH" and "HIIIYAAA" really loud.
If someone posts a video of a TKD belt factory on youtube, then great!! I'm glad they're doing that. Maybe someone who was considering signing up for classes at that school with the intention of really learning the martial art will see the video and be given a great heads up.
The problem that I see is that what all of these places are doing is giving TKD a bad name...the art as a whole, and not just the crap schools that are out there. And really, the only reason this bothers me at all is because my goal is to one day teach what I know to others so that they can get the same benefits out of the martial art that I did.
One of the things to remember, though, is that everyone is entitled to their own opinion. If they think TKD sucks, then that's their opinion. I know that my training does not suck, and I'm confident in my abilities as a practitioner of TKD to use what I know to my advantage...physically, mentally, and emotionally.
And that's what it should all boil down to...are you getting the training that you should be getting? Are you learning how to effectively protect yourself against a live and resisting opponent? Are you aware of what it feels like to really get hit? Are you pushed to your limits so that what you're taught becomes second nature? Are you taught how to be self confident and yet humble? Are you taught to respect others in every aspect?
If you answer no to any of those, find another school. Chances are that if you answer no, you're a member of one of the schools I would consider a problem.
You should also ask yourself what you expect to get out of TKD. Are you taking TKD to be in the best shape possible to defend yourself and others, or are you taking TKD because you feel that it's competitive or you just want to earn a rank in something? If you go with the second part of that questoin, then join the Boyscouts, Girlscouts, or put your kids in a
real daycare and go join a country club...TKD is
not for you. I do realize that these type of people can find TKD schools that suit there needs...but the irony of the situation is that what they're learning is
not TKD.
Learning TKD is the same as learning any other martial art: martial arts in general were designed for self defense, and self defense is very rarely pretty, and it's definitely not easy. The only difference between one martial art and the next is the techniques used in them and the methods used in applying those techniques. But they all are designed to do the same thing: to make you physically able to defend yourself against a fully resisting opponent with bad intentions.
Another thing to consider, too:
Exactly who are the people who are counting out TKD as a valid martial art?
In my experience, there are 2 types of people who come up with this crap...
1. MMA fanboys. These are the guys who think that UFC and other "ultimate fighting" organizations are the gospel for what fighting is "supposed" to look like. Here's the deal...first off, most of the
real MMA folks you ask will be glad to tell you that it's all about knowing your strenghts and weaknesses, knowing what and how to train to play to your strengths and build on your weaknesses, and to train
hard. There are lots of MMA folks on this board, as a matter of fact, that can back up the fact that TKD is no more or less valid than any other art.
Besides, MMA fanboys like to compete and watch others compete religiously, so what makes them any better than TKDists? Alot of people in MMA actually use TKD as one of their striking arts, anyway. Competing in MMA means that you're restricted by rules, just the same as any other tournement. The only difference is the rules that go into effect.
*Note: this applies to MMA
fanboys. This does not mean that all people who practice MMA think this way*
2. Bullies. These are the guys who have to prove themselves constantly to themselves and everyone else that they are superior to everyone and everything. How do they know that TKD doesn't work in a "real" fight? Did they go out and pick one with one of the kids who competes in point sparring tournements or attends a belt factory? Yeah, I'm sure that
that TKD won't work in a real fight.
I'll tell you how I look at that situation:
I know that TKD is a valid way of protecting yourself. I know that "sport" TKD is not a valid way of protecting yourself. But I also know that the martial art
itself is not going to protect me. TKD is not some magic shield that fights for me...I have to
use what I was taught.
Another way to view it...TKD is like a loaded gun. "Sport" TKD is like a water gun. Which one is actually going to be more dangerous? Which one requires more training to actually use properly?
The bottom line is this:
If people want to talk junk, let them talk junk. Continue to train hard for the right reasons....offer to teach others what you have learned so that they can better protect themselves, and have them train as hard as you trained...and don't go out looking for trouble. You don't have to prove to
anyone that TKD is valid. Be confident enough in yourself to know that you can handle a situation properly from the training you have. And warn others of TKD schools that are belt factories, daycares, sport camps, and country clubs. If these places don't get any business, they won't exist.