Dusty said:
i have a question. i am a 5th dahn in tkd doing the itf version but no longer affiliated with the itf. i am a member of nkmaa and a student of gm timmerman. i have a school in southern ontario.here is my question. i have a couple of junior students who have been with me for quite some time. they are getting close to where they should be testing for black belt, however, they have mental and/or physical restrictions where they cannot do some of the requirements at an acceptable level or in some cases at all. i have always believed that for the gup level belts, if they try their hardest, have the right attitude and put the work in, i will pass them. for dahn levels, should i still look at this the same way? i guess my question is, if someone is mentally or physically challenged, do i change the requirements for them or should they be denied a black belt because of it. what would you do in this situation. please dont turn this into a debate about children receiving their black belts.
thanks,
Dusty kwanjang
I will not try and assuage your burden, or ease your conscious by agreeing that they should test, but remind you that at some point in time you are going to have to take the hard road with these students. The only way I can help you is by playing the devils advocate, as an answer is not found by others opinions but dependent on more facts than you have given. And as you are the only one who knows all the facts, as you well know, the burden is yours. I and many of my students who are now instructors have had to face this. This may make me sound mean but let me ask some questions.
Have you talked to the students? Relatives? About their career in the MA?
Are you just afraid of looseing students? Because if you are then you are not teaching up to your ability, just fear, and you will always bend the rules to keep students, and even more will go.
Have you talked to the students and let them know that they may top out in rank? This has nothing to do with wether you can challange them or give them new things to work on. Students can be challenged without giving them rank.
Can they truly not do some things or is it just that it may take 5-10 years?
What does a black belt mean to a regular member of your organization?
(This is what it will mean for these students - and have they acheived that?) That's why they are called requirements!
What do you mean by, "they are getting close to where they should be testing for black belt"? Is this just time or is it ability, knowladge, attitude... back to what rank means in your organization)
Is it you wanting them to test or is it them wanting to test?
How will you feel if they quit?
"they have mental and/or physical restrictions where they cannot do some of the requirements at an acceptable level or in some cases at all." How will other students in your class, your organization... look at this? Even though they have no say in this, reguardless of wether you like it or not, if your GM sanctions it or not, it will affect them.
Should excuses/changing the rules be allowed for other students shortcommings? (Some may think this harsh but some will use the word "excuse") Once you start changing the rules you trod on a slippery sloap. Where does it end?
Because of your bad feelings, how far will you change the rules? Will you allow them to test for 2nd, 3rd, 4th, 5th? You are now deciding where you have to draw the line. You must be careful not to lead them on!
Not everyone is destined to be a black belt, just like not everyone can be a 2nd, 3rd, 4th (unless these are only dependent on time in your organization), doctor, lawyer, fireman... How do you keep some sembalance of standards. I believe in TKD it is called indomidable spirit.
Amongst the wise more respect is given to indomidable spirit than the high rank.
Saying "No"" is not being mean, if for the proper reasons, it is just being factual.
Being honest is not being mean as long as you are up front and factual.
Leading someone on because of guilt or your fealings would be twice as bad.
I do not envy you as this is a trying test of an instructor.
I hope this helps more than a yes or no, as that seems more like you trying to ease your pain.
Good luck and God Bless
