Disclaimer: Lest this be misunderstood, this is not what is happening to me currently.
Here is a story:
There are some students standing in a martial arts school. The instructor is among the students, holding one as a demonstration.
This is what were going to do. The instructor states the name of the move. The group repeats the name. Students pair off to practice the move several times over. The instructor then pauses, What did we just do? The group repeats the name of the move. Very good, now were going to One student asks, Can you say that again? I cannot hear you. The instructor looks over and sighs. He repeats saying the name once more. The student tentatively follows and the instructor nods. Ok, the next one is
He continues the same way with the next few moves. There is one move that has an especially difficult long name. The students say the name together. The one student struggles to say this. The instructor waves his hand, Never mind, and practices doing the move. At the end of that practice, the group states the name again. The one student is frustrated. I need to have a way of knowing what it is. I have to see what this is and to make the association. The instructor replies, I dont have time for this.
The student points out, You require us to know terminology before we can promote to the next level.
Yes, that is true, says the instructor with a long steady gaze. This takes too much time. You should not be here. A long silence stretches to what feels like a minute. With a quiet voice, the student asks, Are you saying you dont want me here? No response from the instructor. A door closes as the student leaves the school.
Here is a story:
There are some students standing in a martial arts school. The instructor is among the students, holding one as a demonstration.
This is what were going to do. The instructor states the name of the move. The group repeats the name. Students pair off to practice the move several times over. The instructor then pauses, What did we just do? The group repeats the name of the move. Very good, now were going to One student asks, Can you say that again? I cannot hear you. The instructor looks over and sighs. He repeats saying the name once more. The student tentatively follows and the instructor nods. Ok, the next one is
He continues the same way with the next few moves. There is one move that has an especially difficult long name. The students say the name together. The one student struggles to say this. The instructor waves his hand, Never mind, and practices doing the move. At the end of that practice, the group states the name again. The one student is frustrated. I need to have a way of knowing what it is. I have to see what this is and to make the association. The instructor replies, I dont have time for this.
The student points out, You require us to know terminology before we can promote to the next level.
Yes, that is true, says the instructor with a long steady gaze. This takes too much time. You should not be here. A long silence stretches to what feels like a minute. With a quiet voice, the student asks, Are you saying you dont want me here? No response from the instructor. A door closes as the student leaves the school.