I was home, taking the week off to watch our kids while my wife went to New Orleans on business. She called me early on the 11th to say goodbye, as she was getting ready to board a flight to Dallas to meet up with her co-workers. My daughter was getting ready for her first day of ballet class when the TV started showing the images of the first tower, then the second. I checked my watch... my wife's plane was in the air, and they were talking about shooting down any planes still flying; so, for a chilling moment, I was dumbstruck by the notion of becoming a single father to a toddler and an infant, and losing the woman I love.
A call came through from Missouri from her cousin, as all circuits direct to the NJ/NY area were down... my wife hadn't boarded the plane and all flights were canceled... and I was to take my daughter to ballet as if nothing happened. As I drove to the studio, there were reports of mushroom clouds over Jersey City, about 20 miles from us. I waited outside the studio, my infant son on my lap, watching for smoke in the clear blue sky. As there was no telling what was about to transpire, I packed a few vital goods by the back door when we got home and waited for... whatever.
My wife was stuck in New Orleans for a week, and spent her time arranging bus charters for her fellow conference attendees to get them home, but ironically, couldn't rally enough support to get one back to NJ, She spent the week being wined and dined well, but also spent a good deal of it crying on her bed and listening to fighter jets flying over the hotel. A last chance van rental, a drive to Dallas to pick up her comrades, and a non-stop drive brought her home the following Sunday.