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a yin yang in the hands of americans
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a yin yang in the hands of americans
Whatever is that supposed to mean...Green = Money?
Anyway since this is a cryptic thread I have a cryptic question. 2 years ago brave chubby little old me (under 5 ft., 150 lbs., 61 years old at the time, barely 2 years of lessons) participated in my 1st competition. One of the judges came over to me later and asked if I'de competed before and seemed to imply that I had and shouldn't be in beginners. Huh? My Sifu complained to the other officials and they aren't letting him judge anymore. Why pick on me? They guy may have seen me the previous year when I was watching the competition.
I just came back from the Competition in Orlando at the Gaylord Palms Hotel. I competed in Intermediate Tai Chi and over 50 Tai Chi Weapons where they let me compete as a beginner (thank G-d). A judge, not one that was judging my group...in the words of a fellow studen "Zeroed in on me and made a beeline to our area, where he watched me like a hawk." She hovered behind me later during his critique and exhibit of his expertese, fearful that he would upset me. Since I didn't have a high opinion of my performance, I wasn't too upset. He asked who thaught me..I told him. I also explained that I'd only been doing the form for 6 months. He then started to name postured and tell me that my timing was off and that I shouldn't hesitate etc. I explained that we haven' named the postures and that I hesitated because I forgot what I was doing. Actually 6 months ago I couldn't do the roosters or the kicks in the form at all. Now I can do them, and my sifu tells me not to try to stay up too long on the kicks and roostes.
Why do these men pick on me???????? My sifu says the man wanted me to start studying with him. When he heard who my sifu is he didn't say anything. He said the broadsword form I did was rare...Sifu says it isn't rare. I mentioned that I had taken a workshop with Grandmanstr David Chin (a wonderful kind man) and I received a lecture on lineage. My sifu told us that the man had a school nearby in Florida and had only signed up 3 days earlier to judge and that he hadn't brought any students with im...supposedly the other officials aren't too happy with him.
I don't know if I should be flattered or annoyed. I was holding a sword. Do you think he deserved to be wacked for picking on grandmas? The gal who was standing by to defend me is the same age as my daughter and she's 40
But if you're truly competing with yourself, you need no-one other than your Sifu, right? And some day, you might not even need them...
Taking to heart any comments made by judges only leads to heartache.
so very true that chinese are making money off of tai chi, I guess I should have put "tai chi masters" instead of americans, but we americans tend to put tai chi in sorts of places, from slapping it on a karate school, to health club, to calling it the dance of health....it's starting to get on my nerves!
I would think that phrase is self-explanatory...Granted you could twist it a bit and state that your version of competing with yourself includes competing with others, but I maintain that the simplest, truest explanation of that phrase would mean testing yourself THROUGH yourself, without comparisons or contrasts to others.Well, who's to say what it is to "truly compete with yourself"?
??? Not sure I understand the reference.Surely, the next point you make (about critical judges) is one such way of "competing with yourself", right?
That's certainly one way, but you don't need a tournament in order to pressure-test your abilities. In fact, the unrealistic nature of tournaments mitigates against it being an effective training venue.Staying composed under pressure certainly seems something that you can only get with tournaments. You might not win the tournament (due to circumstances most probably not about the correctness of the form), but were able to stay composed no matter what came at you, surely you've competed against yourself successfully, right?
Sorry, but once again I don't see the connection. The only reason I said you need a Sifu, through a certain period of time at least, is to gain knowledge in the most effective way. After you gain that knowledge you no longer need that Sifu. It has nothing to do with conspiracy theoriesSurely, if "truly competing with yourself" only requires a Sifu: isn't it kind of the individualist equivalent of those "secret" shenanigans that don't show themselves under the excuse of "keeping things secret/pure"?
I never heard that one - sounds intriguing...It's one big "no true scotsman" fallacy as far as I can tell.
Staying composed under pressure certainly seems something that you can only get with tournaments. You might not win the tournament (due to circumstances most probably not about the correctness of the form), but were able to stay composed no matter what came at you, surely you've competed against yourself successfully, right?
I would think that phrase is self-explanatory...Granted you could twist it a bit and state that your version of competing with yourself includes competing with others, but I maintain that the simplest, truest explanation of that phrase would mean testing yourself THROUGH yourself, without comparisons or contrasts to others.
That's certainly one way, but you don't need a tournament in order to pressure-test your abilities. In fact, the unrealistic nature of tournaments mitigates against it being an effective training venue.
Sorry, but once again I don't see the connection. The only reason I said you need a Sifu, through a certain period of time at least, is to gain knowledge in the most effective way. After you gain that knowledge you no longer need that Sifu. It has nothing to do with conspiracy theories
I never heard that one - sounds intriguing...
It wouldn't be the first time, believe me.I think you miss the point.
When I read that she had "participated in her first competition", "I competed in Intermediate Tai Chi", etc. I assumed she was competing. True, she didn't specify that was her sole purpose in going, but when you get flak from people as she did, especially from people that aren't even "judging" you, I see the worth of competitions eroding.franzfr had never talked about going to tournaments just to compete with others. In fact, going over her post again, nowhere was it mentioned that she was comparing or contrasting with others. There was a specific part of her post which specifically states that the other competitors no longer matter.
I don't think so, really. I'm taking one side of perception - I realize there are others. It's difficult for me to post replies that encompass all possible viewpoints - and besides, then there'd be no discussions and no learning.I think you're debating your own preconceived notion rather than what was being said.
Understood. My version of "self-explanatory" meant that it's self-explanatory to each of us, not to all of us, based once again upon perceptions and level of experience.As a sidenote, in my experience, things that are "self-explanatory" are not. Things that seem "self-explanatory" seem that way because those who think so do not consider other explanations. This is a general observation, and not about you, to be explicit. I got into trouble before when my general comments were mistaken to be directed.
True enough. I was setting down my opinion on the subject - no harm, no foul LOL.Well, I'm of the opinion that you test yourself any way you can; and learn any way you can.
That's what I wanted to warn her about...What you learn from tournaments might not be about martial prowess, but you can still learn other things.
Understood and agreed. But I still believe that the majority of people that go to competitions go to compete with others. That entails comparing your skills, your talents and abilities to others and that, ultimately, leads to frustration. Name a child that goes to tournaments that doesn't go home with a long face when they don't get a plastic trophy. How many adults, even if they proclaim non-involvement in the results, leave either ecstatic or disappointed, neither of which lasts nor is of any prime importance in the grand scheme of things?Maybe you don't need a tournament. But that does not translate to other people not needing tournaments. It certainly doesn't translate to that people can't get enjoyment from participating in tournaments despite the outcome and that everyone going to a tournament must necessarily be comparing themselve with others.
I know it probably sounded like it, but I wasn't giving advice. Chalk it up to my poor social and writing skills. Just verbalizing what was on the top of my bald little head. And no, you didn't mention competing with others - but Franzfr did.Lastly, I can see value in comparing with others, but the value I see is probably not the value you are assuming when you give advice. Though I must say I still do not recall any instance in mh previous post where I mentioned anything about competing with other people.
Ah, OK. Not sure I said it was the only one true way, but no matter.I was disagreeing with your view that there is only one true way to test yourself and that is in almost solitary confinement. In some ways, this view is exactly equivalent those "closed door" schools who make excuses for not testing themselves with, as you call it, "real" pressure.
Once again, I find your arguments lucid and I'm in agreement with them. I'm thinking mainly of Franzfr's statement of "Why do these men pick on me?" - like self-defense training, I was merely implying that if you plan your trip to stay out of the troublesome neighborhoods, you'll reduce the chances of bad mojo happening.Like I said earlier, there is no "true" way of testing yourself. Personally, I think that all methods discussed so far is equally valid and they lend themselves to a cyclical application. Sometimes it's good to test yourself solitarily and other times it's good to test yourself in the presence of others (which in no way implies there must be direct competition or the perception of competition). It's like a band: they do concerts when they're sick of being in the studio and records in the studio when they're sick of doing concerts.
Oh, yes! That's how politics and law works. :rules:It's the flavour of the month. A lot of needless trouble has been created by people left and right claiming that there's only one true way to do things.