i think you all are right because i am not knowledgeable in my art yet. im really just a junor instructor in training.
Egg1994,
Being an instructor is an honor, indeed. You should be thankful that your teacher gave you such a ranking / title.
However, by no means does it automatically convey any particular level of skill or knowledge.
Instructors come in all shapes and sizes. Some are very good at passing down knowledge, even if they can no longer perform the very techniques they are trying to teach (bad knees, bad back, etc). Some may not be good from a pure teaching aspect, but are excellent practitioners who can demonstrate the technique in such a way that others can copy the technique without worrying that they're watching the wrong thing. Some are blessed to be both excellent practitioners and pure teachers, while others might be less proficient in both areas, but have a type of "never say die" attitude that inspires others around them.
i realize now that i sould focus not only self defence but the spiritual aspect of bjj. i really don't like people portraying bjj as a sport instead of a self defence system. what i want to know is since yall have been doing martial arts longer then i even lived
Any respectable martial art system (which includes many, many, many systems of Karate, Kung Fu, Judo, Ju Jutsu, Tae Kwon Do, Aikido, Hapkido, Boxing, Wrestling, etc) can teach you what you need to know. The important thing here, is that you're developing yourself, making yourself into a better person, through discipline, training, and determination.
Throughout the course of improving those aspects, you're going to become a better grappler, a better striker, etc., which you'll be able to use in self-defense scenarios.
are any of yall experts of bjj and if one of you are i have a particular question to ask how can i use the principles of bjj to defeat someone with a gun
It's suicidal to try to take on someone with a gun, if you're unarmed. If someone has a gun and you don't, then your best bet is to run. Only if you know that there is no other alternative, should you even try to go for a gun disarm, and even then, the odds are not in your favor at all.