The goal is different? How do you mean? Everyone wants to survive, yes?
Whats the worst thing thats going to happen when someone loses the MMA fight? How many times have you seen these grown men, come close to breaking down in tears in the ring? Difference is, is that if they lose, they lose no more than their ego. You lose when someone is trying to rob or rape you, and it could be your life.
OK, although this was clearly not what I addressed.
Clarify then please if I misunderstood.
I was most certainly not "assuming" your friends/relatives are drunks. It was just an example. You guys are pretty touchy here. That said, I do not drink, either. Never have.
LOL, I'm not touchy.
Something other than deadly force?
Did you read what I said? In my lifetime, I've never been in a physical confrontation with any family members, nor friends. As I said, if it came to that, I'd address it accordingly. Keep in mind, the guy trying to mug me, isn't going to think twice about killing me. The drunk family member...well, they're drunk right? Not likely that sober, they'd try to kill me. So, seeing that you're a) looking for specifics, and b) probably trying to set me up for your own purposes....I'd address it accordingly, just like I'd address accordingly, the guy trying to rob my house, attack me, mug me, etc.
Broken arms and legs do happen. Not quite as rare as you might think. Frank Mir broke Tim Sylvia's arm when Tim wouldn't tap. Razak Al-Hassan also had his arm broken when he wouldn't tap. Shinya Aoki broke Hirota's arm. Cung Le broke Frank Shamrock's arm with a kick! I'm sure everyone remembers Corey Hill's horrific shin break. Lots more if you care to look; broken jaws and orbital bones everywhere. MMA is not pattycake.
And in todays UFC events, fighter safety is #1. How many times have we seen people complain because they felt fights got stopped too early? Happens all the time. I said its rare, not that it never happens. And I never said MMA was pattycake, however, its not the deciding factor on ring vs. street fighting either.
*sigh*
Another inaccurate assumption. I'm really trying to understand all the hostility here. Is it just the mere mention of BJJ/MMA that causes knives to be drawn? I think I have been reasonable. I mean, I'm a kenpo guy, too, but I don't get all bent out of shape if someone were to say that *gasp* kenpo is not complete and/or could learn something from the MMA paradigm.
Disappointing that you are also trying to strawman me here - your post count and position here would have me believe that you would be past that kind of thing. Feel free to actually *read* my posts - instead of making incorrect assumptions - and you will see that is not what I practice for. My point was that those things are practiced "for real" in class, and could be done the same way on the street. Can't say that for eye gouges or throat shots, can we? And what do you do if someone else puts YOU on the ground? I find it odd that so many people assume that they can reliably put someone else on the ground, and never consider that same strategy may be employed upon themselves.
Seems pretty shortsighted to me, but what do I know! You guys are apparently the experts.
Bro, I'm not the only one reading your posts. I think its safe for me to say that K831 is reading them the same way. Do you really want me to go back and copy/paste your posts, to show you what you're saying? I think its you thats not reading. You're making it seem like I said I'd never end up on the ground. Please, show me where I said that! Here is what I said...
"Me...if I end up there, I'll do my best to get back to my feet. If, and only if, a sub. presents itself, I might take advantage of it, but if you think I'm going to intentionally look for one, you're crazy."
So, show me...where did I assume anything?? I think my post was pretty clear, but it seems that you're trying to twist whats being said, to suit yourself.
Here is what you said:
"See, here I reading a bit of condescension with the "sport training". The takedowns and submissions in grappling are as real in class as they would be on the street. Limited as they are, they are real in their scope, something that cannot be said for eyegouges, for instance. At least not in any EPAK school I have been to, LOL!"
This reads to me, that you advocate the idea of going to the ground. You said the takedowns and subs are as real in class as they would be on the street. And you'd be surprised as to how easy it is to fit in the dirty shots. Problem is, the guys that dont train it as often or at all for that matter, won't be thinking about it. I can't speak for how you train, but I can for how I train. I have no issue fitting those things in, and from what I've read from K831, neither does he.
Additionally, regarding this comment from you:
"Another inaccurate assumption. I'm really trying to understand all the hostility here. Is it just the mere mention of BJJ/MMA that causes knives to be drawn? I think I have been reasonable. I mean, I'm a kenpo guy, too, but I don't get all bent out of shape if someone were to say that *gasp* kenpo is not complete and/or could learn something from the MMA paradigm."
Bro, obviously you havent read many of my posts, past and present, because if you had, you'd see, that I'm a big advocate of saying that there are things in Kenpo that need to be improved upon. Do I need to find those posts for you? I've also said many times, that both the TMAs and MMA can benefit from each other. I've said it many, many times. If you've missed it, oh well, dont know what to tell ya, other than to search my posts, and see for yourself. I've added in many MMA related things to my personal training. I cross train in other arts besides Kenpo, to further round out my skill set. Difference between me and the MMA ground worshippers, is that I dont swing from the nuts of the Gracies or other MMA heros. Those guys eat, sleep, breath and **** Gracie and grappling, as if its the best thing since sliced bread. I dont. They dont see the weak spots, I do.