Hi Crimson, welcome to the forum.
I'm going to break these posts down and see what we've got here...
First a little background: I only studied Taekwondo for about 3 years and I was a senior green belt about to advance in rank. I dropped out due to some serious health issues and I've been out for about 8 years.
You haven't mentioned how old you are, or were when you were studying Tae Kwon Do, however I will say that three years, a relatively junior rank, and not having trained for 8 years basically makes me say that the TKD is completely irrelevant. All it's doing here is providing you some baseline to compare and contrast any other art with… which is good… but it's not really that important when taken in light of the rest of your questions and post.
I live in a cultural dead zone so real martial art schools are few and far between. Most schools around here are McDojos, including the Taekwondo school I went to. My health is back on track and I want to study a more traditional martial art. One that is not treated as a sport. I am less interested in competitions and rank advancements and more interested in proper technique and the core philosophy of the style. There are only two schools around here I know of that don't fall into a McDojo category. My first choice, a Mu Sool Won academy is 45 minutes away and it would be too far for me to drive there more than 2 or 3 days a week.
Er… right… uh...
Let's clear a few things up, then. Mu Sool Won is a very new system, primarily taken from a few modern systems, very flashy in parts, with very questionable weaponry and other aspects. Traditional? Nope… pseudo traditional? Sure… Is that the same thing? Not at all.
To be clear, I'm not saying the art is bad (although I wouldn't be found anywhere near it), just that it kinda goes in the opposite direction to what you're asking for.
I'd like to devote at least 4 or 5 days to study.
Why? To be completely blunt, the only time such a schedule is actually needed is if you're training in a competitive system, and need to maintain competition fitness. A number of traditional dojo and systems will train once, twice, maybe three times a week (mine are once a week, in most cases)… some schools, particularly full time ones, will give you more options of when you train, but 4 or 5 days isn't often necessary. Home study, on the other hand, is rather vital… and that isn't limited by any school schedule at all.
The second, is an Aikido dojo and it is only about 15 minutes away. The instructor was very nice and answered a lot of questions and the style did seem more focused on the things I want. However, I cam home and did research on Aikido and found a lot of negative opinions of it on several forums. So many martial artists seem to have a poor opinion of Aikido but they didn't give any really specific answers as to why. I was just wondering, specifically, why Aikido gets such a bad rap? I'd like to hear from people who have actually practiced it. What are it's pros and cons?
Not to disagree with K-Man, but the root cause of the complaints aren't what he's indicated… he's given you some of the more specific complaints, but the real cause of the complaints are that many martial artists, no matter how "open" they feel they are, always use their own system as an initial contrast point… and, as Aikido operates in a completely different context, it quite realistically doesn't match what is expected by a lot of people.
In essence, there's a conflict of context. A big part of it is that people seem to think that all martial arts operate in the same context… and that's simply, and patently, false.
I am more interested in it as a practice and lifestyle but I would like to be able to use it in self defense if need be. I am also intending to dedicate many years to it. I love martial arts and have since I was a child. I just want to find the right style and school!
Cool. So far, Aikido sounds like it's the best fit.
Thanks for welcoming me and thank you, everyone, for your answers! I suppose the negativity seemed odd to me mainly because the complaints leveled towards Aikido could be said of many styles.
Yep.
I've not been to a school where they are practicing against resisting opponents.
Resistance is a funny thing… and can be used to refer to a range of different behaviours…
Even when we sparred, there were a great many thing we weren't allowed to do that would likely be used in a real life scenario. Things like neck and groin shots. When we would practice throws, we went along with it. I honestly can not think of an exercise where we received any sort of resistance!
Restrictions on techniques in sparring is really nothing to do with resistance or not. In terms of practicing throws, there are valid reasons to train them like that… and there are (equally valid) ways of training them with varying levels of resistance.
Aikido would not have been my first choice but I did like the instructor and the school.
Honestly, this is the most important part.
Could it be used effectively in combination with Taekwondo?
Uh… yeah… kinda… but not really… and I wouldn't want to be bothered trying. As mentioned, they're kinda opposite to each other… TKD will teach you to stay out, kick, use a particular power-structure, a particular body positioning, a particular movement method, and so on… all of which are the opposite to Aikido… which teaches you to enter, engage, catch, and grapple, with a different power-structure, a different body positioning, a different movement method, and more.
I do not intend to return to Taekwondo to get my black belt. As much as I loved learning it, it was not what I thought a martial art would be, if that makes sense. I do not mean that I disliked the style or that I have not found it useful. Quite the opposite! It was just not traditional enough for me.
Cool. To be frank, I'd leave TKD out of the equation entirely from this point out.
I took my time advancing in rank because it felt too fast for me. I wasn't sure that I liked the idea that people were able to advance so quickly. There was just so much importance placed on competition and advancing rank, not enough on *proper* technique. I think that matters so much more than getting to the next belt color. That is a huge focus in pretty much every school around here.
The focus and emphasis of a particular art, or school, is down to that art or school. Only one form of Aikido has a competitive aspect at all (Tomiki Aikido), so it's not likely to be a focus. Ranking in Aikido tends to be a bit slower as well, so this could easily be your new art. But, as said, the most important thing is that you like the instructor and the school.
All the best with it.