Hi All,
Ive been taking Kung Fu for about about 8 months now. Ive loved my class until recently, when I suddenly started having doubts about it. Chief among them are:
1) I feel like Im not learning how to deliver powerful strikes: our instructor is not a fan of 'overpowering' your opponent, but using leverage, still, I sometimes feel like at least hitting a bag or something.
12: Well I can tell you from personal experience that most Instructors (especially in Gung Fu) are more interested in leverage and bridge control, rather then overpowering your opponent, my advice is either find a new school (such as TKD, Karate, or a striking Art, more emphasis) OR getting a punching bag, most Gung Fu schools I've attended, visited, observed, do have punching sand bags or targets.
2) A lot of what we're learning has questionable usefulness: a lot of our time is spent learning to fight with weapons, which is cool, but I cant help asking myself, 'when am I ever going to need to fight with a sword?'
12: Good Point! Bare in mind that most traditional Gung Fu schools do utilize weapons as apart of the training, but your not alone in that thought process!
3) Learning so much that I cant remember it all/ dont get to apply it: There is so much to learn in our style, that Im constantly getting new info, without having fully absorbed the old info. The problem is though that the class is not designed to go into great depths about REALLY learning a certain move, because theres always the next thing to learn.
12: Common among many Martial Art schools, there's way to much material to learn, cover, and absorb. Unfortunately most Instructors DO NOT spend enough time on each individual technique, it takes too much of 'their' time!
4) I have doubts about how prepared I would actually be for a real street encounter. Its not that the content is not there, its just that its not taught 'in your face' enough for me to remember it in a panic situation i think.
12: Bare in mind that no matter how much 'training' you have, one cannot fully prepare for the rigors of Combat. Even if you join a system like Krav Maga, KFM, or Defensive Tactics, dealing with the physical, mental, psychological, and even spiritual realms of Combat cannot be fully absorb by simple training, even if it is simulated combat or sparring. Best way to prepare is by training itself! And understanding elements of a fight. Anatomy of combat, and human A&P helps!!
So my questions for you all are:
1) For those that have studied/ are studying kung fu, did you ever reach a point where you felt VERY confident about your ability to defend yourself in a fight?
12: I studied BL Jun Fan Gung Fu/JKD and Wing Chun Gung Fu, and have over 22 years Martial Art training, (including unfortunate incidents) and can still tell you, while I'm confident, I'm careful not to be overconfident. (If that makes sense).
2) Am I just going through typical newbie growing pains or are these signs that this style not right for me and I should think about switching schools?
12: Give it a little longer, 8 months is really not that long, and usually for new people it takes about a year to fully understand what is going on. If your truly unhappy with this school, you can always look around at other schools and Instructors... Becoming Proficient in Martial Arts won't happen in a few short years, it takes Years, and Years, and Decades of practice/training!
12: Remember every system and Instructor do it differently!
Thanks in advance.