glad2bhere
Master Black Belt
Dear Folks:
Since everyone else is putting their thoughts out there for folks to consider I thought I would take a moment and translate what I have been theorizing into something a little more concrete. And from the title of this string you may guess where this is going.
Across the US today thousands of kids will find an open lot somewhere and without benefit of organization get together, draw-up rules and have a lot of fun (maybe even learn a bit about themselves and each other) for a couple hours after school and before going home for supper. I suggest the same kwan model for Hapkido.
Contrary to the adult world's value system, the kids in the sandlot do not NEED an organization like Little League, or T-Ball. They do not NEED a fancy park, parents cheering them on and a trophy at the end of the season. They do not NEED medical clearances, permission slips signed by an adult or or an official registry of standings relative to other sandlot groups. Nobody has to tell them how to workout a batting order, or who plays what position or how to sort out differences over a particular call. They get together and do what they love best---- play ball---- and maybe help each other out along the way, ne?
I suggest that we can do the very same thing with Hapkido IF we can first let go of the organizational crap that we have been fed by our parents and trust in ourselves and each other. Will we have to decide on some basic thoughts about what we are and what we want to do? Of course, so do those kids on the sandlot. Will there be people who want to have a bigger say because its my ball? I bet there will be. But we have a telephone (Internet) and we can call each other and ask the equivalent of can Joey cummout n play? Some of us are better at short-stop, and some of us are better at batting and there will always be those kids who will fight like hell not to wind-up being marginalized out in right-field. What we wont have are parents telling us how to have a good time, and what our worth is relative to some standing or ranking THEY set up.
Finally, is this a substitute for, or better than the organized Little League of the KHF, IHF, USHF or any other approach? Nope, and its not any worse. Its just an alternative to those venues where people will only do a seminar, teach a class, start a school, publish a book, produce a tape, etc, etc if it is first determined that there is enough money or recognition in it. FWIW.
BTW: I STILL NEED HELP with putting together the "sandlot rules" (minimal standards) if anyone is still l interested.
Best Wishes,
Bruce
Since everyone else is putting their thoughts out there for folks to consider I thought I would take a moment and translate what I have been theorizing into something a little more concrete. And from the title of this string you may guess where this is going.
Across the US today thousands of kids will find an open lot somewhere and without benefit of organization get together, draw-up rules and have a lot of fun (maybe even learn a bit about themselves and each other) for a couple hours after school and before going home for supper. I suggest the same kwan model for Hapkido.
Contrary to the adult world's value system, the kids in the sandlot do not NEED an organization like Little League, or T-Ball. They do not NEED a fancy park, parents cheering them on and a trophy at the end of the season. They do not NEED medical clearances, permission slips signed by an adult or or an official registry of standings relative to other sandlot groups. Nobody has to tell them how to workout a batting order, or who plays what position or how to sort out differences over a particular call. They get together and do what they love best---- play ball---- and maybe help each other out along the way, ne?
I suggest that we can do the very same thing with Hapkido IF we can first let go of the organizational crap that we have been fed by our parents and trust in ourselves and each other. Will we have to decide on some basic thoughts about what we are and what we want to do? Of course, so do those kids on the sandlot. Will there be people who want to have a bigger say because its my ball? I bet there will be. But we have a telephone (Internet) and we can call each other and ask the equivalent of can Joey cummout n play? Some of us are better at short-stop, and some of us are better at batting and there will always be those kids who will fight like hell not to wind-up being marginalized out in right-field. What we wont have are parents telling us how to have a good time, and what our worth is relative to some standing or ranking THEY set up.
Finally, is this a substitute for, or better than the organized Little League of the KHF, IHF, USHF or any other approach? Nope, and its not any worse. Its just an alternative to those venues where people will only do a seminar, teach a class, start a school, publish a book, produce a tape, etc, etc if it is first determined that there is enough money or recognition in it. FWIW.
BTW: I STILL NEED HELP with putting together the "sandlot rules" (minimal standards) if anyone is still l interested.
Best Wishes,
Bruce