Lauren, there is an option. Don't go. No one is making the younger player go to these USAT events. That is the option. You will find that the younger players who do goes to these events have every intention of winning said events. This is what makes them players and it is their option too. Back when they first started using electronic scoring I had a 14 year old BB, Sally Lofland, in Colorado Springs, who lost in the JR Black Belt division but then medaled in the senior black belt division in sparring. A couple years later I had two sisters, Melani and Tahira Harris both went and competed in the Senior Nationals, once again in Colorado Springs. The younger one, Tahira, 11 years old won a bronze and her older sister, 14 year old Melani, won a silver in her division, losing the gold medal match by only 1 point. Heart, ability and training can over come an age difference. Terry, I've seen many younger players over come older players. Being older doesn't necessarily mean better, it just means older. Once more, remember, your player does not have to go! They can find a place to play that is more to their level, IE: not so dangerous. But, do you think the Steve Lopez, Herb Perez or Dana Hee would have won Gold in the Olympics by playing it safe? I think not!