Thanks for the advice guys, I really appreciate it. I've already sent a notice to the instructor in question.
People sometimes believe their instructors are on a higher level or something. Send him notice?????? I was with my last full-time instructor for nearly 8 years and when I found out he was behaving like a pin head I rang him on his mobile phone left a message, we met and I told him see you later. We aren't in Japan and we should treat our instructors with the given respect in class but not put them on such high pedestals out of class. If I was with a guy for a short time(and didn't have a financial contract or something) I would just leave. Nothing is forcing you to stay there.
Cheers
Sam:asian: