Jobo, you are a competitive dude, that's for certain! Good on you for that. New super-fit guy comes around, it doesn't effect me at all, other than to let the other guy know he's doing it well. If I was doing 12, and he's doing 18, I'd maybe try to get it to 15 but I'd be finding out what he didn't do well and take advantage of that.I new very fit guy has just joined( personal trainer) and we got into a pull up competition on a beam in the dojo, I could do 12 he could do 18 so I'm back on the pull up bar to get my total up to 20
On the hip flexibility, do you stretch at home? Do anything other than what you do at the gym?