Does that really happen though?
I mean look if you wanted to train, have fun, learn stuff and meet new people then what you are suggesting is fine.
If you think you are learning some sort of skill that negates force without ever actually having to train against people who are seriously using force.
You are in for a bit of a shock.
I mean there are rules in a boxing ring but they don't suspend the laws of physics.
I wasn't being serious about the Seagal comment... It just looks to me like he's fooling around with people in movies who attack him so aggressively. I haven't seen him fight in reality

. But yes, most of our techniques are not based on force, as the technique fails when strength is introduced.
So, is Aikido to you not an effective martial art?... You make it seem like it's not.
Sure, reality may teach me some lessons. I am by no means a weak individual though. I used to bully boys in school, so I'm not necessarily a "fairy"...
I lift weights, I do cardio. But my strength isn't useful in what we do. My weight is, however.
It's very difficult to explain these things to people who aren't familiar with these arts or haven't physically trained long enough to understand the physics behind it. I'm pretty certain that when the Japanese invented these different styles & techniques, they considered the law of physics, otherwise it wouldn't have been effective & taught to begin with.
I can debate with you all day about this, but at the end of the day, I'm not the person who formulated these styles, I'm just practicing it. I don't have all the answers; I just know that most of what we do fails if you implement it overcome by aggression & force.
Most likely we will target a boxer's hands, hence their hands are protected most of the time. There are a lot of things we can do to defend ourselves, but there's not a lot we can do if we are driven by ego.
Martial Arts isn't all-explanatory. Some things you need to experience in order for you to comprehend it.
