Ceicei, She, Tkd, Jade, Cacey and two gentlemen,
I really don't mean to be tart, flippant, insultful, or to cause a riot.
If this is true then may I make a friendly suggestion, coming from someone who has been on this board and has seen many a tuhan come and go?
When someone points out to you the error of your ways in a respectful and polite manner, have the decency to own up to it and apologise and don't reoffend. That will get you farther then anything.