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It's my experience that women tend pick up on female cues better than men picking up on females cues. There have been numerous times where women have warned me about other women and I had no clue what they were seeing until I got neck deep into the situation, then I was like "Ohhhhh that's what she was talking about."I'm going to have to call you on that one - citation required
Commonly, it's the other way around, hence sayings like "women's intuition"...
In reference to the video of the lady going off about the guy who got mad that she didn't respond to him, she even admitted that women don't know and that they are confused about how a guy will react or how he won't react.
There are some cues that women are excellent at picking up and there some cues that they miss. It's the same for men and there's nothing wrong with things being that way. For example, my wife can pick up and tell me which guys are most likely to "stab me in the back." I totally suck at that. She's been 100% right so far. She able to pick this up early on. If the situation was a flower she will tell you what flower will appear before the seed spouts. For me, I don't get a clue until I get a couple of leaves and sometimes the flower itself. However, when it comes to guys who are likely to do her harm, she tends to get into the "benefit of the doubt." mindset or "she doesn't want to judge people mindset."
I think things are like this because it's just easier to see things going on in situation when you can view it from the outside. You get a larger picture of what's going so you tend to see the cues better. For example, women who see female friends get "hit-on" (approached) tend to be more familiar with the warning cues, and will sometimes actually remove their friends from the situation. For me personally, I'm glad that women can pick up on cue that I can't see, because it gives me a fairly good double check on reality.
When a beautiful woman walks in the room I get a good chuckle, because I can see all the men position themselves to be "that guy of interest." If I was single, I would do the same thing, but with the purpose of how can I "beat out" the other guys without looking like I'm interested in the woman. Somethings are easier to see for women and somethings are easier to see for men. I don't think that's a slam on any one gender. It's just the way that it is.