RTKDCMB
Senior Master
When I think of TKD, I don't think of blocking and applying arm bars.
I think of that.
Then maybe you need a wider perspective? When I think of BJJ I think of two people rolling around on the floor making human pretzels but I know it is more than that.
Not every self defense situation requires maximum force though
I believe that is what I was getting at.
and if I choke someone unconscious, choking them to death isn't necessary.
If I knock someone out I do not need to stomp on their ribs.