jobo
Grandmaster
great so if they,act with urgency by running away, that fits your defintionProficient immediately...able to act appropriately immediately. As for fighting...I may have used "fighting proficient" and most people do not understand this.
So, then...the number one thing to do in a confrontation is what? It is to act. So, if we can immediately instill a sense of urgency and will to act, the person will act...so, how is that not proficient? No one guarantees survival, but action certainly does immediately increase the chances.