Is there anything I can do if I can't afford to join a school?

If things really are that desparate, just do pushups and find something to hit. My dad taught me to fight by punching bedding when I was a kid. I'd venture to suggest though that if things really are as dire as you're making out maybe you have bigger problems that need to be solved first....?
I think Op would be in a school by now if the OP had that type of passion.
 
I'm pretty sure they already pay someone to clean up their place instead of waiting for a peniless guy to come over and beg them to do it for free. I don't know how long ago you were young, but I don't see such tactics working in modern world.
It won't work with that type of attitude. You fail to realize that some of the same guys who benefited from such kindness and understanding from their teachers would also do the same for their students, understanding what it was like to not be able to pay full price.

But the more I read your comments, The more I begin to think that you are right. It won't work for YOU. Just from what you said in the post. I would teach a student for free or reduced cost but not if they have the same attitude that I'm picking up on you.

Sometimes Younger People should just listen to those who are Older and who have been through some of the same stuff you now have trouble with.
 
I think it takes someone with discipline and an open mind to do well in MA.
When I was 6, I put a small rock among my 3 fingers and squeezed it every day. I believed if I could smash that small rock into powder with my 3 fingers, I could sink my fingers into my opponent's bone.

When I was 11, my brother-in-law taught me an open hand form and a stick form. One day I got into a fight and didn't know how to use what I had learned from my open hand form. My brother-in-law stopped teaching me any more form. He forced me to train "1 step 3 punches" for the next 3 years. That was the best MA advice that I ever had in my life.

3 years may sound like a long time. But time will pass by no matter you train or not.
 
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I'm pretty sure they already pay someone to clean up their place instead of waiting for a peniless guy to come over and beg them to do it for free. I don't know how long ago you were young, but I don't see such tactics working in modern world.
My teacher told me that there was a teashop owner who had great MA skill. My teacher wanted to learn from him, but that master won't teach my teacher. Everyday my teacher went to that teashop, swept the floor, pumped fire into the stove for tea. 1 and 1/2 years had passed. One day the teashop owner told my teacher, "I know what you have in mind." the teashop owner then shown my teacher a solo drill for about 30 seconds. He then told my teacher to leave and never come back. Few months later, the teashop owner saw my teacher used that technique in a local tournament. The teashop owner then spend 2 hours explained the detail of that technique.

My teacher always said, "I have spent 1 and 1/2 years just to learn 1 technique. Today, you guys want to learn many technique in 1 day."
 
It won't work with that type of attitude. You fail to realize that some of the same guys who benefited from such kindness and understanding from their teachers would also do the same for their students, understanding what it was like to not be able to pay full price.

But the more I read your comments, The more I begin to think that you are right. It won't work for YOU. Just from what you said in the post. I would teach a student for free or reduced cost but not if they have the same attitude that I'm picking up on you.

Sometimes Younger People should just listen to those who are Older and who have been through some of the same stuff you now have trouble with.
Yeah! Now get off my lawn.
 
Watch it, old timer, we have toilet paper and we're not afraid to use it :)
HEY!!!!! You kids get off a my lawn
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I think it takes someone with discipline and an open mind to do well in MA.

Most people that start Martial Arts have good intentions to train.

But, to me, getting out your door and walking into the dojo is more than half the battle. Once you’re there and ready to go, the rest is pretty simple. I didn’t say “easy” but it is simple.
 

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