Having had 5 children, and all of them in various sports and clubs, I have found the most important thing is to keep an eye on the enthusiasm level for each activity. By that I mean the childs enthusiasm for the sport. You as a parent know your child the best ,so look for signs that they arent enjoying it as much, such as reluctance to practise or moodiness before and after an activity. Also listen to their instructors and coaches if they say that interest is waning. I have always emphasised to my kids that they can try any sport or club they want, but they have to really want to do it as I am not going to have the time to push them to train etc.. So far this has worked well , with them at least trying each sport for a season/ year before pulling out or deciding to keep going with it. I have found that as they get older and have more pressure with school and homework, they tend to cut back themselves to one or two of their favourites. I think you need to be open minded and flexible enough to listen to their opinions too.
And it is important to try not to let your own passion and enthusiasm for an activity blind you and make you deaf to your childrens opinions on that same activity.It sometimes helps to get them to talk to an impartial "other person" then you can get feedback without emotion.
And it is important to try not to let your own passion and enthusiasm for an activity blind you and make you deaf to your childrens opinions on that same activity.It sometimes helps to get them to talk to an impartial "other person" then you can get feedback without emotion.