Steve
Mostly Harmless
I was reading on my phone, and responded before I got to page 2 and saw the further conversation around Manseau's comment. I just want to clarify a little bit what stood out in my mind.
First is that you (Manseau) drew a clear distinction between the actions and the intent. As Flying Crane said, determining intent is a difficult thing to do.
Second, why do you think intent matters in this? Say a man or woman is just kind of... meh. Doesn't really matter either way. Or maybe he or she is just trying to be cool. What is it about this that makes it contemptible? Is it the sexual component, or do you feel the same way about hipsters of any kind?
First is that you (Manseau) drew a clear distinction between the actions and the intent. As Flying Crane said, determining intent is a difficult thing to do.
Second, why do you think intent matters in this? Say a man or woman is just kind of... meh. Doesn't really matter either way. Or maybe he or she is just trying to be cool. What is it about this that makes it contemptible? Is it the sexual component, or do you feel the same way about hipsters of any kind?